It's totally up to you whether or not you want to make noise while making love. It depends really. I tend to moan some during the act, but when I get close to climax, I stop making noise (I dont even notice the difference, my boyfriend told me this after I asked him about it in regard to your question) and become almost completely silent until release. It's different for everyone. Just do what you feel comfertable with.

jus relax and if u moan u moan.. its not a big deal really...

To moan or not to moan is all predicated on one's personality.

If you are moved to moan, moan. If not, then demonstrate your pleasure in other ways. You can squeeze him, etc., et cetera, etc.

i'm not verry experienced with sex but the experiences i have had i didn't make a sound during... the woman i'm seeing now has talked to me about this (we havn't had sex yet but discuss it often) and she told me that she would perfer that i make at least a little noise so she knows what she is doing pleases me... although i'm a verry quiet guy i plan on letting her know how much i am enjoying her not because i feel the want to but because she told me that she would enjoy sex that much more if i was vocal with how much i enjoy it.

again... jus say that if u dont moan and if she wants u 2... that you feel u dont want to be faking it or misleading her.

yes she might be amazing but if you dont usually moan then its obviously not a thing that was meant to happen

We are usually more prone to moan, groan, let out a sigh, say something like:"yes...yess", "don't stop", "more", "moremoremore", etc., the more comfortable and secure we feel with each other and the relationship. In other words, inhibitions be damned, full speed ahead!

[QUOTE=nightphreak]i'm not verry experienced with sex but the experiences i have had i didn't make a sound during... the woman i'm seeing now has talked to me about this (we havn't had sex yet but discuss it often) and she told me that she would perfer that i make at least a little noise so she knows what she is doing pleases me... although i'm a verry quiet guy i plan on letting her know how much i am enjoying her not because i feel the want to but because she told me that she would enjoy sex that much more if i was vocal with how much i enjoy it.[/QUOTE]

I regularly write about the need for both parties to provide feedback on how you are responding to his/her caresses and for what you may need--now!, however, your perspective on this is wrong. First, you should want to because it confirms to her that what she is doing is working or not; second, when we vocalize in some manner, it will generally intensify what we are experiencing.

[QUOTE]Originally Posted by dancingdoc2
I regularly write about the need for both parties to provide feedback on how you are responding to his/her caresses and for what you may need--now!, however, your perspective on this is wrong. First, you should want to because it confirms to her that what she is doing is working or not; second, when we vocalize in some manner, it will generally intensify what we are experiencing.[/QUOTE]

i can see what you mean by how my perspective on this is wrong , though untill this relationship ,speaking about sex was( and still can be every once in a while) an embarrasing subject and difficult to discuss and express sexual wants and needs.