Hi
I've been with my current girlfriend on & off for 8 years and the sex is really starting to suffer. Every few months or so its amazing and we have lots of sex, get a bit adventurous and she enjoys wearing stuff and we've even filmed it a couple of tmes but then theres the months we can go weeks with nothing.
Anyway, to the point, So im looking of ways to spice it up for especially during the good times! For a while ive fantasised about watching her with another man and getting involved a bit. I love watching real amateur mmf porn and get really turned on by the idea. However, this is not something she has ever expressed a desire for, although she was pretty excited once by a dream she had that she was having sex with 2 of me!
I wanted some advice from couples who have done this or do it a lot. How can i suggest such a thing or even try to find out if she would be interested without seriously risking ruining the relationship, and if shes up for it, how to go ahead with it?
Hope to hear some good advice
Thanks
Bringing in additional lovers because a relationship is suffering isn't a good idea it isn't going to fix anything but will likely complicate the situation more and create tension and issues that you can't predict now. It's similar to a woman thinking she can save her marriage/relationship by having a child or more children. It's a sliperly slope for even the best acrobates and you may need to seek a website that caters to swingers and multiple partner relationships to get a more complete picture of what challenges you and your partner may face if you persue this kind of relationship.
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In short, while 3-somes do occur, generally they are more satisfying in a fantasy than in reality. More often than not these encounters harm the 2-some relationship in the real world.
Not a good idea to try when your relationship may be suffering. I urge the two of you to work on making your romantic relationship great all the time, first and foremost--then when it is, you can discuss options involving a third person along with what is expected and what the boundaries will be.
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I suggest that the two of you read every article listed, discuss what you have learned, add to what each of you already knows, and then put the information into practice. Each 1 of you must work on making your 2-some as good as it can be before adding 1 more to the mix. Please understand that adding a 3rd. person male or female is problematical even with the strongest of 2-somes.