Girls: If you could correct one thing/technique/strategy/assumption that guys bring to sex, what would it be?
If you want, list more than one.
I'm not asking for absolutes -- just personal preferences.
Tue, 08/14/2007 - 16:14
#1
Mistakes/misconceptions
To correct one attitude? If I have sex does not imply I want a relationship or marriage with you.
Throttle back on the ego just because you have a penis- I can buy bigger, thicker, harder, and it will last as long as the batteries hold out.
An orgasm is not necessarily the purpose of doing it with you.
being on birth control is not a free pass to skip wearing a condom.
Lasting a long time does not determine whether or not you're a good lover.
One behavior? Please don't "bang" the heck out of me; really, not all women love it!
Being a guy, I certainly cannot contribute to this post. But all replies certainly to be read! :)
[QUOTE=sera300;190522]One behavior? Please don't "bang" the heck out of me; really, not all women love it![/QUOTE]
but some do :D :D :D
[QUOTE=Godiva;190500]Lasting a long time does not determine whether or not you're a good lover.[/QUOTE]
exactly. and it can be too long.
Misconception: Fast, pounding thrusts = powerful.
Not every moan and sigh is a cue to throttle up to turbo mode.
Brute force isn't power; getting me to beg is power. Telling a guy to slow down somehow feels like a scolding, while asking them to speed up feels like a congratulations. Even when I ask them to slow down, they still go way too fast for me to have anything left to beg for. This has been the case with every guy I've slept with (including enlightened, attentive, experienced adults), and my girlfriends agreed.
But that might just be our preference.