I have always wondered why it was so hard for my guy to enter me and why I was having such bad pain when I had sex.
So I went to the doctor and everything checked out normal, which gave me a bit of relief.
So later on, I tried it with myself and I was still having the same pain, even without him.
So, I figured I'd try out a variation and put a pillow under me and it was fine. I tried out other positions and it was fine. (By fine I mean, there was still small pain but not nearly enough as before. It's still a small pain because I'm still relatively new to the penetration thing.)
But as soon as I went back to plain missionary style, the pain was back.
Would anyone have a clue as to why it hurts so much in that position?
It's a position many many couples have sex in the first time and many women lose their virginity in, so I'm curious as to why the pain, and also curious if it's this way for anyone else.
It seems as if maybe the bones in me when I lay in that position want to, like "collapse" like...or come closer together than in other positions. It's just...odd.
I can understand pain in positions like doggie style because of the deeper penetration, but he (or myself) can't even fully enter me in missionary to even be able to begin to go deep. So again, just odd.
It's probably nothing really (since everything does check out ok). I just think too much sometimes. lol.
Could be the angle at which he enters you, that he mgiht be hitting a wall of your vagina. I dunno, thats my best guess. To me, actually it's probably the easiest positions, the one that actually hurts me is either from behind or doggy.