Just tell her. It will probably make her feel special that she is your first.

dont have sex until your completely open with her,
dont lie!

lol uhm my bf lifts my leg, cuz im flexible i guess its easier to penetrate deeply.

> my question is any advice on missionary position so that it doesnt look like my first time?

The first thing both of you should understand is that experience equates to knowledge, not skill. Secondly, with each new pairing, there will be a new "Square One" from which the two of you will begin. Each couple brings a new dynamic to the bed, couch, blanket on the ground, bath, etc. In other words, each of you has likes, dislikes, quirks, and other issues that must be worked through or adjusted to. It therefore really does not make much of a difference whether one or both of you has had any prior experience or not. Because there will be a new Square One for the two of you as there will be for any other new partner each of you may have in the future, you can expect that there will be a period of adjustment where things may not go quite right for awhile. The important thing is not to make a big deal about things when they do not live up to expectations. Making love is serious business, yet you should not take the mechanics too seriously in the beginning.

A relationship is a partnership, so too, is making love. It is not what we do to each other, rather what we do with and for each other. With this in mind, I encourage the two of you to explore, learn, and grow together in your shared experiences.

What is your girlfriend's experience. Is she a virgin or has she had intercourse before?

Regardless of the answer, my recommendation is to use the Woman Superior position the first couple of times instead of the Missionary. Here's why?

If she is a virgin, then the position places her in complete control.
* she knows where your penis is and where her vagina is and can deftly bring the two together

* she can place the head of your penis either beside the hymen or against one of the major openings (assuming it has a large opening) in order for penetration to be easier

* she controls the pressure used to gain entrance
* she controls the speed and depth of penetration

* she controls the rate of stroking

You can contribute to the action by elevating your hips and pelvis in sync. with her movements or simply to raise up so that the strain adds to your enjoyment. You can steady her breasts and also fondle them and continue to caress her.

This position is one of the few in which there is sufficient and ongoing friction required to build and then trigger her orgasm.

For you--
The benefit of this position is that it saves you from possible embarrassment in trying to locate the vaginal opening. She can quite literally and easily "hook the two of you up"!

Because she controls the action, you are left to enjoy the "ride" so to speak. You are not a passive partner in the action at all, yet you are not in control. So, suggest this position for one or both of these reasons.

If you opt to use the Missionary position, then you can locate the vaginal opening with one hand and use the other to guide your penis to it and the opening. Plan B is to invite her to take your penis and position it in the entrance as you move into position.

Your worst enemies are fear, worry, and insecurity. The more matter of factly you take this the better. Guys as a general male thing, get all hung up on peformance and perfection, to which I say--relax and lighten up! These are not what are important for a woman. The things that are have been covered at length in other threads.

Don't get hung up about being a virgin. If she is experienced, she will probably be able to tell anyway. If she is not, then she won't. It really doesn't matter either way.

By the way, I suffered from some performance anxiety for my first time. First of all, I couldn't control myself and came too soon when she started using her hand on me.

After allowing some time for recovery, we tried again, but I had some difficulty maintaining an erection. First we tried the missionary position, where she tried to guide me in (ah, so that's where it is!). She was fairly tight, and I wasn't hard enough, so I couldn't get it in. So then we swapped over and she went on top. Same problem. Tried side by side, still no good. Ok, how about standing up. Nope! So then we tried the rear entry position (ie: 'doggy' style) with her on hands and knees and me entering from behind. Eureka! Woohoo! I think that seeing her rear end in that position did the trick for me. She had a lovely arse, and a great pair of legs, and it was a sight to behold!

Well, I guess that's not too bad for a first time. At least I got to try a lot of positions.

i wuld say be honest.

maybe she culd tell u what she likes

and how she works.

i dunno

before having sex

it shuld be honest between u 2

and if u decide not to tell her

just go with it.

relax.

and read up on it.