Missed Loves_getting it off your chest
This has recently been buggin me and wanted to talk abwt it but feel guilty coz am wiv current gf who is amazin. When i was at my secondary school i had a good friend who i think liked me (i liked her back but was scared and immature) but never acted on it, later i plucked up the corage but i think she got fed up of waitin and have wondered and thought excesively abwt it and her. I had strong feelins 2wards her and have not felt like that 2wards any1 else since. :o any suggestions on gettin over her i wood appreciate and wood like 2 no i'm not the only 1 who has some1 they not quite over so plz post ur stories.
Yes.
Everytime she pops into your brain, literally change your mind and think about something--anything else. You will have to do this over and over at first, and it may seem like a bother, yet this is one good way to stop thinking about her. Over time she will come to mind less and less.
thanks I'll try but am not sure i really want 2 stop thinkin abwt her? she always made me smile and i always enjoyed being with her... but enough abwt me has any1 else had people they met like this?
i would say talk to her about it, it's going to constantly on your mind becasue you have all these what ifs, if you talk to her it will answer some of theose what ifs
"Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” - Robert Heinline
It has been a long time since i last had these thoughts abwt her and not sure whether i just afraid of my new relationship ??
i don't think the thoughts will persist long but mayb i should talk 2 her ....
c if she at least felt the same at some point ???
xx