for the first time ever in my life, i had an orgasm from vaginal penetration. i am 30 years old lol. better late than never right? i have always been a rather one trick pony in regards to getting off, and i need a very very specific kind of stimulation, and it was something that no one could do for me during sex, so therefor no partner has ever brought me to climax. i have been working very hard for the past few years in trying to get there by myself with other kinds of stimulation, things that i know a lover can recreate. with the help of a very um...exotic toy i have achieved two minor but definite orgasms via penetration, the first time i have ever orgasmed via any other method than my usual
yay me! now maybe i can work with a guy and get HIM to get me off too:p
Pai, please read the articles listed in the Index that discuss the many aspects of the female orgasm. These articles should help you quite a lot.
> yay me! now maybe i can work with a guy and get HIM to get me off too
It has been stated many times in other threads that each of us, male and female, is responsible for our own orgasms. All any partner can hope to accomplish is to help his/her partner achieve them. You seem to be well on your way, congratulations. Please keep in mind, also, that making love is not what we do to each other; rather, what we do with and for each other in partnership. Communication and feedback {verbal an non-verbal) are keys to a happy sexual relationship. Why? Because none of us are mind readers, and what works for one individual many not be what works for someone else. We all masturbate in the same general way for our genders, although as we learn how to, each of us develops minor variations to the theme that become unique to us. So, for your continued success, you must work with each other, not expect that what he decides to do will somehow magically trigger your orgasm. This is discussed in at least one of the articles. I encourage a couple to show and demonstrate for their partner and then work together so that s/he can learn to mimic what each of us does as an individual when home alone.