[FONT="Arial Black"][SIZE="1"]Ok, well i am 18, and i am still a virgin. It has been my decision to wait, but now i am with my gf of almost 6 months and we are gradually moving into more things. We are taking it slow cause we really like each other, yadda yadda you know. But when we are messing around i like.....i don't know how to say it.....cream my pants? well yeah...is it normal? Happens often. It isn't cumming, but yeah. I just feel embarrassed or will when she decides to go down on me or something. [/SIZE][/FONT]
Mon, 04/23/2007 - 07:47
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Might cum - a problem?


do you masturbate regularly?
Is it a lot?
Could be just pre-cum?!?
Same thing used to happen to me.. I think its just because you are horny and haven't experienced sex yet. When i started having sex regularly it stopped happening, besides the occasional small amounts of precum.
There isn't anything you can do about it, and you shouldn't really worry. Girls can get a hell of a lot wetter than that. ;) And my gf finds it a bit of a thrill when she can make me wet before we've started getting heavy.
> But when we are messing around i like.....i don't know how to say it.....cream my pants? well yeah...is it normal? Happens often.
Sure, this is normal if she massages your penis through your trousers.
> It isn't cumming, but yeah. I just feel embarrassed
It isn't?? How do you figure that that? If you are ejaculating regardless of where or what method, it's "cumming", which is just a slang term.
Why feel embarrassed? I'm sure she knows exactly what is happening to you, after all unless you are quite good at hiding your emotions and the pulsing of your penis, the signs are obvious even through two layers of material. I have two thoughts for you. The first is to really embrace her during and after the event so she knows how very much you enjoy what she is doing for you; second, that you move on to the next stage which is to open your fly and let her slip her hand inside during the time preliminaries. Later, one or the other of you can pull your penis out. To keep from creaming the outside of your clothing, just have a towel or cloth handy and use it as a drape.
If you are not ready for this stage of intimacy just yet, then place a cloth inside your underware for the time being.
Sounds like precum to me.
that is what i thought, that it was precum. It isn't alot really, i guess it depends though. Sometimes i have more than others.
"Cream my pants" is generally meant to mean ejaculating.
If you are just becoming very turned on and oozing precum then that is of course a normal thing pants or no pants. Precum travels thru the urethra in order to cleans the passageway of impurities that can kill off sperm cells. Once on the outside surface of the Glans it acts as a temporary lubricant.
Generally speaking the more turned on a guy becomes, the more he oozes to a point. So, if there isn't very much when you masturbate and a lot when you and your girlfriend play around, that's why.
Consider the fact that girls ooze, also. The appearance of vaginal mucus and the appearance of precum are initial indications of becoming aroused--not that a person is ready for sex. That all happens after Necking, Petting, etc.
My teen dates had that happen. Sometimes a little moist and sometimes I could feel their jeans get wet. Perfectly normal but should feel even better if she takes it out of your pants.
It just seems embarrasing to me. She knows i get turned on and everything but, eh. I guess we'll see what happens when it gets out of the pants.