hey all i got a weird question for ya
when me and my bf are having sex he'll cum inside of me and everything is good.. but almost everything leaks back out and its a realy turn off to a big turn on of ours.. if there is any way of preventing this it would be great! thanks


If you are not going to use a condom I would suggest a stash of towels. My wife bought a special set of towels we keep by the bed that are easy to reach. It's kind of funny how excited I get when my wife says to make sure there are clean towels.
I suppose you could get a cork. Seriously, what goes in does run out, at least some of it. A little will be absorbed. Depending upon what happens next you could place a towel under you, use a pad, take a shower. Why is he not using a condom? Contraception is a dual responsibility unless you do not care if you become pregnant.
Yea the only options really are....
1. WEAR A CONDOM....not just to prevent the drips but to prevent STD and pregnancy.
2. Have sex in the shower...that way you'll never feel the drips to begin with.
3. Put down a towel....to absorb
4. Have him pull out and come somewhere else.
Drippies!!!
I hate them as well. I prefer Ducy's option 4... or option 3.
Why isn't he wearing a condom since you are gf/bf? That would take care of the mess and be the safest way of having sex. I know it feels better for the guy without one, but this is really not wise not to use a condom.
I guess the three of us are all in agreement on these points.
A man ejaculates a scant tablespoon, typically. About half of this is absrobed through the vaginal walls and the rest drains out with an immediate flush and then some hours of slow draining.
Hey there,
thanks for the advice i just wasnt sure if it was just me that this was happening to.. its just good to know there are others out there with this problem.. yes i know we should be wearing one.. there are just sometimes that we dont we normally do and the times that we dont this kept happening.. so just wasnt sure.. and it doesnt just feel better for the guy.. honestly it feels better to both.. in my opinion anyways.. we're not worried about STD's we have both been tested and both came back negative and i have had a pap since i've been with him... but thanks for all the answers i really appreciate it!
[quote=sammi8987;202714]Hey there,
thanks for the advice i just wasnt sure if it was just me that this was happening to.. its just good to know there are others out there with this problem.. yes i know we should be wearing one.. there are just sometimes that we dont we normally do and the times that we dont this kept happening.. so just wasnt sure.. and it doesnt just feel better for the guy.. honestly it feels better to both.. in my opinion anyways.. we're not worried about STD's we have both been tested and both came back negative and i have had a pap since i've been with him... but thanks for all the answers i really appreciate it![/quote] Condoms are a must unless you are willing to assume the risks of potential STD's...blind faith in a partner is bad practice since people do wander.
She said they'd both been tested... so it's fine.
But unless she's on hormonal contraception she *is* going to end up pregnant.
[quote=Valerie;203074]She said they'd both been tested... so it's fine.
But unless she's on hormonal contraception she *is* going to end up pregnant.[/quote]I know. I still always advocate for condom use...both can be tested and clean. One wanders without an open discussion and the other is infected. If both are willing to accept the responsibility if something should occur, fine...I found the greatest risk was from a spouse...for STDs. Would never have thought...I found too, I swear for every dollar given to me for a phone call I had to make to inform someone they were STD positive...Id be rich! People lack honesty& it hard to tell someone this when they had no clue.
It surprises me that people are that rampantly unfaithful.
But like, worse than that - rampantly unfaithful UNPROTECTED? How ****ing stupid ARE they?
[quote=Valerie;203092]It surprises me that people are that rampantly unfaithful.
But like, worse than that - rampantly unfaithful UNPROTECTED? How ****ing stupid ARE they?[/quote] Very much so, unfortunately.