I notice a man's lips first. I love full, juicy lips on a man and my eyes always gravitate to that part of his face. Then I notice his face overall including his eyes and his hair (only like clean cut men). After that, it's the overall package including how he wears his clothes, his height, his build. I love nice shoulders and a nice chest on a man.

I'd say eyes, you can tell alot by a person by just staring into his eyes. However, a cute butt never hurts either

Eyes are number one in my book. I also have this thing for a man's shoulders, nice toned ones.

nice hijack

TexasGuy, I'll do what I can:

Anyone who wishes to continue the Greendale argument go to the General Discussion section under "Judging"

TexasGuy, on topic, why not find out the things your wife finds attractive.  They are going to be different from everyone.  We don't want to see you have to rebuild yourself head-to-toe!

Being in the abusive relationship before and having parents that were abusive, I like feeling safe with my man. SO I like chest, arms and shoulders that you can just cuddle in and feel safe in. I also like hair, eyes and the way someone smiles.

oh and Texasguy the first thing i usually notice is his hair or how he's dressed.
cool hair whether its a crazy color, bleached, highlighted, spiked..etc, usually grabs my attention.
also, you can kinda tell a guys personality by his clothes. im usually up for more laid back or rockin' type clothes.

you don't even get the point!
no one said they didn't like your reply. not the original one at least.
they definetly didn't care for the latter ones where you were cussing and going off on people.
all thetease said was she was making an observation. you didn't have to jump down her throat. all you had to say was "i don't care to respond to that" or "no im not gay but i do have fantasies..etc"

"If you didn't like my reply, F'ing IGNORE IT!!! It's not that big of a deal, mates. "

you were the one turning it into a big deal by getting irate.
no one ever said they didn't like your replies, she just had a question about it. whats the harm in that?

besides you were the one taking it so personal. as if it was a personal attack on your character or whatever and it wasn't.

And by the way, this person said to ask what the mens best part is, so I answered, I wasn't talking to any of you, I was answering this thread. If you didn't like my reply, F'ing IGNORE IT!!! It's not that big of a deal, mates.

I can post what I want here. This is an open forum for freedom of speech and it's so sad that you're taking others posting so personally.

[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ May 19 2004,19:38)][QUOTE=Quote (Greendale @ May 19 2004,19:11)]Just wanted something else to add, if you're going to put up a sex board, you got to be expecting a lot of weirdos coming on this site. If you can't take the sense of humor, oh well, deal with it.  [/QUOTE]
Weirdos??  IF you are talking about yourself, fair call.  But if you are pointing the finger at someone else that sounds a lot like judging which you claim to be against.

Don't make judgment calls, as you are likely to find yourself on the end of one.  As you have so aptly demonstrated.[/QUOTE]
Then if you don't want me judging others, then don't be judging me. K???

There are plenty of weirdos on this site, I'm not the only one. ;)

I myself wouldn't necessarily say butt(althouth it's nice) I mean overall jean presentation. Meaning they gotta fit well! Not too tight that it doesn't leave anything to the imagination but not too loose that they are falling off. NO belly hang-over too if you've got on the right pants. It's an over all package if you know what I mean.

Getting back to the subject at hand!
I also love a nice smile. It can really make the moment too.

Wally you are always right on with your post. Getting naked is so much better then anger. Should I take my clothes off now or later.  

Texas dear sorry that your thread got hi-jacked. It was a good topic.

Note to everyone:

If you keep posting to this thread "off-topic," anger and it's proponents wins.

I suggest we all get naked and go back to examining body parts.

Wally

So it's all just an act and a bunch of crock?

If it's all just a bunch of crock then seriously, leave.

You may see it all as a game but believe it or not, we have helped each other a lot on this board. We are here to help each other and to help new ones that come along. We are not here to "play" with each other and "joke" about serious matters.

If you see that as funny and humorous, then again, please leave. Your "humor" is not really welcome.

On my other message board we call people like Greendale, Trolls. They come on just to cause trouble and like to shock with their behavior.

I for one will not be responding to anymore of your threads because you lack honesty and respect for the members of this board.

If I was a moderator your ass would be banned from this board and we would no longer be subjected to your ways.

Have a nice life.

[QUOTE=Quote (Greendale @ May 19 2004,19:11)]Just wanted something else to add, if you're going to put up a sex board, you got to be expecting a lot of weirdos coming on this site. If you can't take the sense of humor, oh well, deal with it.  [/QUOTE]
Weirdos??  IF you are talking about yourself, fair call.  But if you are pointing the finger at someone else that sounds a lot like judging which you claim to be against.

Don't make judgment calls, as you are likely to find yourself on the end of one.  As you have so aptly demonstrated.

[QUOTE=Quote (Greendale @ May 19 2004,19:11)]Just wanted something else to add, if you're going to put up a sex board, you got to be expecting a lot of weirdos coming on this site. If you can't take the sense of humor, oh well, deal with it.  [/QUOTE]
whose sense of humor???
are you saying that you said all that stuff to be funny?
did you say you wear women's clothes to see if we would think it was funny?

yes we get some strange ones but we aren't mean or rude to them. some of your comments came off more hostile than sarcastic.

Well, I'm 6'3" and it rarely happens to me... *pokes out lower lip*

But it's nice when it does...

dude, you're over a foot taller than me.
i'm 5'2". my guy is 5'4".
wow I feel short (and i'm sure he does now too). *lol*

[QUOTE=Quote (oberon @ May 19 2004,19:23)]But it is nice to look up into someone's eye's[/QUOTE]
Ooh, yes. That's very very nice.

I'm short, and so is my guy, but he is a couple inches taller than me, so I just have to look up ever so slightly, and damn, it's hella sexy. lol.

[QUOTE=Quote (Greendale @ May 19 2004,18:50)]People judgin others like that needs to grow the hell up.[/QUOTE]
That's it. That's the last straw.

It has been stated NUMEROUS times that no one was judging you and you have IGNORED it everytime.

So perhaps we're not the ones that need to "grow the hell up".
Before you attack other people you need to look at yourself.

Oh, please, let's NOT turn this into a brawl.  As Tessie so wisely pointed out, this is the NICEST board I've yet to come across.  

Greendale, you are MOST welcome here.  No one wants to judge you or make you into anything you're not. I think thetease just had questions from reading your posts. I also think she made some good points.  But that's all they were meant to be.  YOU are the only one who has to be happy with the decisions you make.  But if someone sees something- something you might not recognize- then bringing it to your attention should be considered helpful- not an attack.

I don't know you personally, and won't form any conclusions about your sexuality. I will say the repetition of "I like this about men..." and "I might have sex with a man, but just sex- and no one can know about it." "... but I'M NOT GAY!" is starting to become somewhat offensive to those of us who are.  Being gay or bisexual is not a disease or affliction that you need to be ashamed of.  And that is how it is coming across from you.  

You've also made comments like "Why are ALL women so mean?" and "I might like to wear women's clothes, but would NEVER do it in public" ( which sounds to me a great deal like "those who do are perverts!")

I don't really believe you mean the things you say to be offensive and I don't want to get all PC.  But you might consider how something might sound to someone else before you put it onto paper [sic].

We all want you here.  You perspectives and opinions are just as valuable as anyone else's.  Just try to remember that other people have feelings too, and, especially when they don't know you personally and can't judge your tone, it is easy to offend someone.

*deep breath*

Okay, let's get back to talking about male body parts.  MY favorite subject...LOL.  

I LOVE facial hair.  Beards, moustaches, goatees, whatever.   Being rather tall myself, I also like taller men. (not that I'd turn down someone shorter than I...lol)  But it is nice to look up into someone's eye's- or at least across...

yeah whatever, being attracted to men doesn't make you gay as I explained above.

People judgin others like that needs to grow the hell up.

You know Greendale, Tease post was very nice and I think she made some good points.

You attacking her like that was not called for. The reason I like this board so much is the honesty and respect that everyone shows to each other.

I was just about to post that I agree with her. That is not out of anything mean towards you. I have resoponded to most your post and I too wonder if you know who you are inside or are you still searching that answer out.

Again don't want to flame you but that was just not nice.

Yeah whatever, I can post what I want here, don't like my posting, then leave or ignore it.

Ok, I don't mean to get this topic off topic but Greendale, this has been bothering me (as well as some others) for some time.

You're a guy. This we know.
But you swear up and down that you are not gay or bi and don't want anything to do with "gay" things sexual wise (and the way you word things does offend some people on here, just so you know.)
But you sit here and post about how guys turn you on and how you enjoy dressing in women's clothing and other gay or bi tendencies. You have seriously bad luck with women and always seem to find the wrong ones and apparently have this problem with the way women act most of the time.

By looking at your posts you do tend to show and express some gay or bi qualities and tendencies.
Now, I'm not trying to say that you are gay or bi or anything. I'm not accusing you of anything by any means. This is just my personal view of your postings.
It seems to me that if you have such crappy luck with women, and sometimes it seems as though you think some of them are the spawn of satan, maybe you should start looking at the other side? Again, by looking at your posts you tend to have some of the "other side" qualities and tendencies so why not give it a shot? It's not going to make you "any less of a man" so to speak.

And again, I'm not judging you or accusing you of anything. It's just an observation on my part. You don't have to accept it or agree with it or even like it. I just feel as if it's something that needs to be said, especially since I'm not the only one who thinks some of these things.

[QUOTE=Quote (duckie @ May 19 2004,13:59)]But, I can't help but be caught off guard by a man that looks fine in jeans or in dress pants.[/QUOTE]
I agree with that part. Even though I'm a guy, I get turned on with guys wearing tight jeans so you can get a good glance at their ass. I can't help but look.

But what I love the most about men is the strong athleticism, if a man has muscles, I'm attracted.

the facial region is where i drift first and usually i drift to the eyes first.

sometimes, if they have facial hair (mustache or goatee since i don't like beards. lol), i'll drift to there first before the eyes, but that's rare. so yes, the eyes.

I love a man with sexy eyes that you can just get lost in.

But, I can't help but be caught off guard by a man that looks fine in jeans or in dress pants.

Like Duckie said with me its the eyes. You can see so much of a person by looking into their eyes. I also like a nice smile that is welcoming. Thinking of Tom Cruise here. ( I don't want to hear from any of you the man is hot, hot, hot)

Now purely physical. I admit I like a well toned body. Good arms and a 6-pack stomach. Whats not to like about that. (Again Tommy in Mission Impossible hanging off that ledge. Yummmm.):p

Oh and he should have his hair comb. Unless we are in bed and then I am forgiving.  

And by the way, I only fantasize about men, that doesn't make you gay at all:

http://www.jackinworld.com/

This is one of the most common questions young guys ask themselves. The truth is, very few of us are 100% straight (or 100% gay). Lots of heterosexual men have fantasies about other guys, sometimes at the peak of orgasm, and this leaves them feeling very insecure. It's one of the most carefully kept secrets in male society. (But not on JackinWorld!) You're really only gay when you've concluded, without a doubt, that you enjoy males sexually more than females. Random fantasies and even sexual encounters don't make you gay.

Straight from that site. I'm sure many sites gives out information that just because a straight man is attracted to men doesn't make you gay, even Rawbob and Oberon stated that too.

What makes you gay is having a long term relationship with men. (which I would never do)

So think before you wrongfully judge someone.

Dude, WHAT is your problem.
I made an observation. I said that I WAS NOT JUDGING YOU.
I am not the only person who has made this observation either (as Tessie has agreed with me).

And then you attack me.
I never said you couldn't post at all. I never said you what you could post about. I made an observation that I, and others on this board have made. I never judged you. I never said you were anything. I just made an observation. And you turn around and become snide and rude to me.

So seriously, what is your problem?

good post tease and tessie
i too had been curious about it but thought it was just me or something.
i think tease's and tess's posts came across in a polite and curious manner. they were in no way judging or attacking you.

there's nothing wrong w/ your feelings. you should embrace them instead of ignoring them or pretending they aren't real.
you are still trying to find who you are sexually. nothing wrong w/ experimenting to see what best fits you. some people don't realize till later on. i mean rawbob was married for a long time till he realized that he would be happier w/ a man. i dunno if his married life was good, ok, or awful. but theres no use in shoving yourself into the "perfect life" w/ a wife and 2.5 kids, if that isn't going to make you happy in the long run.
rawbob you can correct me or elaborate in anyway

Just wanted something else to add, if you're going to put up a sex board, you got to be expecting a lot of weirdos coming on this site. If you can't take the sense of humor, oh well, deal with it.