So i have this kinda embarrsing story to tell and i just wanted to know if it has ever happened to anyone else, b/c if it has then maybe i wont make such a big deal about it.
So to make a long story kinda short me and this guy were having sex and i got my period ... yes my friend came during the deed and i didnt know...he found out jumped up and went to the bathroom...me being the confused one that i am, didnt know what happened til i look down and was like ohh crap...i think that he was a little freaked out well maybe alot of freaked out because we didnt say anything to eachother for the next 30 mins we sat there and finished the movie we started...when it was done he left but before he left i told him lets pretend like this never happened...what makes this situation ten times worse is this was the first time that we have had sex and we are kinda good friends and that i forgot to mention he was my ex-boss and i didnt want him to tell his two best friends that i work with because that would just make the situation worse... but now i just dont know what to do...do i worry about it? does it happen to others? i know that its really gross but what do the guys think, what would you do if you were the guy?
Tue, 08/02/2005 - 05:35
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Men- I need your advice!!!
Some men mind it and some do not. There are men who can not stand the site of blood and that as well could have been what freaked him out. I had that experience once. After the first suprise I got I jumped up and about shit my britches, so to speak. After that first suproese though I got to where IF a woman was ragging then I just did not look down there. I found out though that sex is better on the rag ( for the woman). What you should do is talk to him about it and IF you were more satisfied then let him know and see how he feels about sex on the rag. Being a guy that is all I know to say. Being a guy I may have said somethings that may have offened you as well. I apologize if I did but you asked for opinions and so I gave it.
Good. It's nice to hear that he wasn't a jerk.
Take care.
he he. I'm glad you guys got over it and moved on. I know that can be emberassing, but it's good that you got through it.
yeah!!!!
He didnt tell anyone...but it was a spur of the moment kinda thing...we were both drinking and pretty gone and it just happened...im over it now, thanks for the advice... we even hung out right away after and it didnt effect either of us, we both just laughed it off...thanks everyone (p.s he wasnt 14 lol much older then that
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How old is this guy? Like 14
Doesn't he know about women's bodies?
Yeah, it's happened to plenty of us. Oh well. I'm with oberon, if he spreads it around that you had your period or something and didn't tell, then I'd just deny it and say "what? that's crazy! He left so fast cuz he came like as soooon as he put it in me, it sucked sooo bad!" lol But then I'm kinda evil like that.
I like sex during my period too. Didja know orgasms are great for cramps? Always cures them for me. Great time for sex in the shower.
Well, I can't really believe I'm responding to this... not my "area", you know...
But anyway,
I'd say if you're going to have sex {with a woman}, then you should be ready and willing to deal with this. I don't really see any difference (embarrassment-wise) between this and spontaneous ejaculaton. Our bodies aren't always under our control. As Tabooty said, "That's life".
I'll also chime in with if he tells other people about this, then he's a jerk and not worth wasting your time on. In fact, if he did, I might be tempted to spread it around that HE has an exceptionally small penis.
I love sex during my period. Not for a few days before when I feel crappy but once the flow starts, I enjoy it. Mess and all. If a guy freaks out, goodbye. It is part of being a woman and if a man wants to be with a woman, that has got to be accepted as part of life.
When I was fourteen I would go to great lengths to not let anyone know I was having it. Hell, we all do; what's the big secret. Soap and water solves all the mess.
[QUOTE=Quote (HerPleasure06 @ Aug. 02 2005,00:06)]Its not like you did something to hurt him, your had no control over it so if he’s going to be immature about it the he’s not worth it[/QUOTE]
Exactly, it's not something we really have control over.
This happened once w/ my b/f and I. I thought I would start the next day but it ended up being that night.
There wasn't a lot of blood, just a little bit on him and me.
I think I felt more bad that he had to stop the sex in the middle, lol, and of course after that I was no longer in the mood to do anything else.
But yea, it's just one of those things. It's bound to happen to us all eventually.
I think its weird how guys "worship" the P and spend all their time like trying to get P, but during that one week you'd think we had leprosy or something LOL!
Dont wanna be around, dont wanna hear about, dont wanna think about it, lol.
it seems he was really immature about it. My GF and I did it when she was having hers, it wasn’t bad at all, he might just have been shocked…but if he goes around telling people all the specifics of what you do in the bedroom epically if its something embarrassing for you then he’s not your friend, he’s an ass. I would recommend you talk to him about it and see what he’s thinking. Don’t feel bad. Its not like you did something to hurt him, your had no control over it so if he’s going to be immature about it the he’s not worth it
Some guys mind, some don't. He was probably more embarrassed for you (for lack of a better term) because so many women still treat their period and all discussion of it as taboo. If it makes you feel any better, blood is just that and everyone has it no matter where it comes from (your period or a cut). My experience is that most men just try to respect you during that time, but would gladly still have sex regardless. If a man doesn't know how you will react to something, then he probably won't know how to react either. Besides, it happened, you can't change it, so don't sweat it. Such is life.