I have only been with two girls in my life. Both of them loved watching me jack off. My teenage sweetheart, and my current gf of two+ years. When I was 14, we were making out quite often, and eventually we started to get more daring. She asked me what it felt like for guys to cum, and I did my best to explain it to her. She, very bashfully, asked me to show her. So, I, very bashfully, but also very turned on, obliged. She was very curious, and really into it. She was taken a back by how big my dick was. She had only seen her 9 year old brother's, never an adult sized one. Needless to say when I came, due to all of the excitement, my cum came flying out like a high pressured firehouse. She was really into it. We had sex for the first time later that night. She liked to watch me jerk off quite often, but she would always finish me off herself, which was awesome.

My current gf also loves watching me jerk off. She often gets herself off just watching me masturbate. We topically have sex like 99% of the time now, but she loves my dick a lot. For her, sometimes its a turn on just to see my dick get hard, especially when shes the one causing it. Her biggest turn on is feeling me cum inside her. Knowing its her body causing me all that pleasure really gets her heated up, lol.

You are all right. She likes to watch me jack and it does make her hot. She even likes to help me but always stops so that we can make love.

She wont masturbate for me, tho I wish she would. Never have but I would love to watch a womanmasturbate. I would pay close attention and learn something Im sure.

[QUOTE=bubbabrownman;257991]I'm an exhibitionist male and have always wondered why women rarely watch their man/men strip and play about until they climax.[/QUOTE]

Maybe you have just chosen the wrong woman to be with:p;):D

I wonder the same thing. I'm really into watching a guy get off or play around, but there are some women who don't like it.

If she's into you she will watch and probably enjoy.

...and then there are the shy bashful type of guys.

[QUOTE=nuttychick;257992]Maybe you have just chosen the wrong woman to be with:p;):D[/QUOTE]

I was gonna say...

I've done it for sure:P, he just prefers being the one to make me orgasm, and will generally hop in bed and play after the first few minutes :P

Every so often I'll be with a woman who wants to watch me get myself off - I can't say it's a common thing ( or maybe more women like that but aren't being 100% honest about it ? ) Honestly, it always seems funny to me at first, but if I know she really DOES want to watch, then I'll gladly abide her wishes.

And every time I have - honestly - it's really enjoyable. I don't know what makes it so hot to have a woman watch me, but it is !

why not? they may like to watch too
but if guy directly open and start to rub , where is excitement??
it seems weird..
sex is not only anatomic events

try to share the moment!!

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i love 2 watch my man masturbate,he loves it when i get aroused and start playing with myself.He even likes it when i start sucking him till he squirts all over me.Doing it together is a real turn on for us

Since every man has his own "touch" when masturbating and since I like to thoroughly investigate my men, I ask them to masturbate for me.

Please note that I'm not in a white lab coat writing notes on a clipboard but that does sound rather kinky.

i love to watch my man masturbate,it's a big turnon for me to watch him handle his tool.Then when he is almost ready to come i suck him off or take him between my breasts then it's his turn to watch me get down and dirty with myself

loved the last two post...you ladies are very erotic!It works both ways too.I love to watch mo SO masterbate also...very hot!Can't get her to do it with me though...if you ever do that with someone and climax at the same time....helps you to read her and wait until that moment when your having sex.

I think it is mainly because the female body is a work of art that looks beautiful and sensual. As opposed to the male body that is rugged and not as sensual I would say. There is something beautiful about a woman sexually pleasing herself. Men on the otherhand, are just odd looking when doing this kind of act, specially for a woman. However, if my partner finds pleasure in seeing me do it, I will jump on the act.

I strongly disagree with the idea that men's bodies are unattractive!

The angles that flow into another, the muscles wrapping the bones, the texture changes from fur to skin, and the strength and control inherent in his form - this coupled with his spicy scent!

Oh, yes - men's bodies are quite erotic.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;258748]I strongly disagree with the idea that men's bodies are unattractive!

The angles that flow into another, the muscles wrapping the bones, the texture changes from fur to skin, and the strength and control inherent in his form - this coupled with his spicy scent!

Oh, yes - men's bodies are quite erotic.[/QUOTE]

Gosh, thanks EEK, you do say the nicest things!!:)
Just off to the mirror to check it all out!!!

actually i like 2 c guys masturbate..it turns me on a lot

You are on your own pal - never happened to me. Lady I met last week asked me to masturbate for her, turned her on big time, massive. Next thing i know she is fingering her clit and before i know it, just before i climax, she is sucking me off. Something is wrong fella.

I love to watch my man masturbate and then have him cum on my breasts while standing over me.

I think that is very sexy when she is comfortable with that!!!

I think masturbating for your mate is [COLOR="Red">HOT[/COLOR]. You're letting a person get closer to you when you do it.

i get real wet watching a man stroking his big hard dick, then i start playing with myself until bust or he jumps in. this is the best

I agree with you, while I watch him, it makes want me want him to see me masturbate. It's great foreplay. He enjoys masturbating me, while I masturbate him. Either way our Pleasure burns into Passion. Afterwards oral sex is more wonderful for us both...what can I say it works.

mutual masturbation is so damn sexy

Ooohh yeah!

watching my boyfriend masturbate is the hugest turn on!

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Funny thing happened .........

We went to bed and my wife was to tired to fool around. She offered to give me head but I told her no, cause she was to tired. I told her I was just going to masturbate.

I threw the covers off myslef and starting playing.........she was watching and kissing me deeply. I kept stroking and as she was kissing me, I shot cum and it hit her on the side of the face..........we laughed so hard. Slept good that night.

My missus likes to watch me masturbate. She gets rally turned on and likes me to talk dirty to her as I do it and then eat her out after i have cum.

[QUOTE=goinsouth;261533]You are all right. She likes to watch me jack and it does make her hot. She even likes to help me but always stops so that we can make love.

She wont masturbate for me, tho I wish she would. Never have but I would love to watch a womanmasturbate. I would pay close attention and learn something Im sure.[/QUOTE]

When I help my man masturbate I don't stop to make love, I give him the best head he could have and after he cums we make love. She don't know what she is missing out on not pleasing herself. To pleasure yourself is wonderful and men love it, I do it all the time.

My feeling is also woman do like to watch men masturbate. I do not know reasons.
I would definitley get watched by woman while masturbating

Well i kno last night me nd my bf were masturbatin wit each other nd as he got closer to climax i watched him stroke his self then he came nd it was so intriguing to me b/c i have never seen anything like tht happen plus it was so much cum it was almost a cup for sure... When he was done i started climaxing nd i exploded it was tha best thing tht ever happened to me nd he was more than willing to let me watch :D ladies i suggest tht u try watchin ur man cum!

Ya SexySweetyScorpio, seeing your man cumming, do u also try to orgasm same time?

No b/c it takes me a little more time to cum...but i did like 5 minutes later luckily he was still hard nd horny :)

did he also watch you fingering? I tell you I love watching her masturbate. It is so exciting to watch woman masturbating. I like to cum that way.

Do you just watch or do someting else with his penis or cum?

Me and my boyfriend always watch each other doin it, it's more fun I would cum first then watch him and then he would make me squirt

personaly I love watching a guy jack off but I dunno I always get tempted to take over for him lol

I have a few pairs of bondage pants I have modified to allow proper access and removed the $@%^@# zipper lol, 1 of them is covered in straps fastened with double D-rings, another is combined straps and heavy duty clamps that are great to attach to any of her waist or tie belts, she also often makes herself a body harness that I can hook on too anywhere on the body, any play from her can quickly turn in anything from any of you, she can hook her neck or i could hook too her lower back and anywhere else we want, the final pair are more designer style, tripps they call, she just goes crazy when I put those, unfortunately they are layered with zippers and stuff, so I have to be carefull not to scrape her seriously, these are great when shes begging to give head, simply because they are well cut and fit my legs perfectly, I also have shirts using a similar style with the D-rings, but that comes off eventually, another item I use is soft rope or straps, I always do my best not to cum when I'm alone, instead I will always practice my muscle, to do it with the straps I simply must get it hard, and then in random or logical pattern rap them around either base or shaft all depending how you feel, like this I can control a a restrictive up down movement that is perfect for a long session, as well as the other that tightens and swells up my cock. When she is waiting at the other end of the room, I can slowly start walking towards her and loose the shirt and other accesories, when shes near she can take the strap and nicely guide it down her throath, last night I got a 3-4 h blowjob that was keeping me on the edge the whole time, when I got to her she tied me down to a chair and kept my cock nice and wet the whole time with some really nice and slow gagging and throathing, she wanted to continue all night, but she looks so sexy doing me like that, I'm still not sure who enjoyed it most, but I decided I had been enough of an hypocrite for today, she was dead tired but wouldnt let go so I had to force her on all 4's give her some till she falls asleep. I gotta say that was best from what I can recall, wish you all the same desires we have for each other.

I was once with a girl that only once wanted to watch me masturbate, she was having trouble getting me off orally so suggested i finish myself off, she turned to go but came back and said she weanted to watch.

i think the other aspect is that men usually want to be stimulated by the woman rather than she watch him jerk off

While I grew up with Twin brothers It wasn't hard to find out that they were watching me masturbate. :o
Than again I would watch them as well. :)
So when they found out that I was watching them, an agreement was made for us to mutual masturbate with each other.
I know you might feel that this is a "[COLOR="red">Taboo[/COLOR]" or something worst like it was incest. I didn't think in them terms at the time.

It was more in finding the correct answers to questions I had at the time. :)

For me it was an insight for the future with being Sexual with another person.

[COLOR="blue">Kids will always find ways to learn the answers to their Questions in any way they can.[/COLOR] ;)

OMG I love to watch, just find someone willing! My hubby is too shy lol

id gladly cam for a girl so they can watch me wank

My wife and I love to watch each other masterbate. She loves watching me shoot a big load of cum on her 38D tits (she loves playing with my cum, rubbing it into her skin) or sometimes likes for me to shoot into her mouth and on her face. I love watching her bring herself to multi gut-wrenching, knee-weakening Os and then licking and sucking up her pussy juices.

Girls aren't idiots. We are better at stealth than guys. Think about it we fit in more places because we're more flexible. Answer: we do but we do so discreetly.

I like watching and dont mind being watched

I love it when chicks watch me masterbate :)

i watch my man masturbate all the time, because i am interested in what makes him feel good. and how he reacts to my watching him and when he starts to to get heavier breathing i usally take over for him. it is a great thing to learn what makes him feel good and how he reacts to you after he starts to masturbate. i love to watch my man all the time and he like it when i watch.

I've been married for 20 yrs.
I only wish my wife would want to watch me masturbate!
:):)

[QUOTE=KellyAnntx;264801]While I grew up with Twin brothers It wasn't hard to find out that they were watching me masturbate. :o
Than again I would watch them as well. :)
So when they found out that I was watching them, an agreement was made for us to mutual masturbate with each other.
I know you might feel that this is a "[COLOR="red">Taboo[/COLOR]" or something worst like it was incest. I didn't think in them terms at the time.

It was more in finding the correct answers to questions I had at the time. :)

For me it was an insight for the future with being Sexual with another person.

[COLOR="blue">Kids will always find ways to learn the answers to their Questions in any way they can.[/COLOR] ;)[/QUOTE]

I agree with you about the "insight for the future with being sexual with another person" perspective. Me and a nephew masturbated in front of each other once. He was growing into puberty, I was growing out of it but we was both still horny all the time. He asked me that day if I masturbated. I laughed, and I said I think everybody does at some point. We got to talking about it for a while, and I guess we both just got really horny talking about it so we just masturbated. It wasn't incest, we didn't touch each other or any thing like that, we just happened to be in the same room while we was masturbating. It was a little awkward after that, but it didn't last long. Looking back, I can see clearly it was just me as a kid, young adult pre 18, having my first insight about being sexual with another person. I didn't realize it at the moment, but it became clear later in life. I don't see what you did as taboo or incest. If I would of had a sister that wanted to work the same deal you did with your brothers, I probably would have agreed to it! LOL Just a part of growing up as I see it.

"A nephew and I" .. it amazes me how RUDE sme people are.

You ALWAYS put the OTHER person first, dammit!

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