All three I suppose. But really focusing on do other guys have it and how to go about it.

I am certain its okay that I do. We have anal play at times where I lie on my stomach and she gives me a massage (while wearing some sexy lingerie, of course!). Eventually her hands reach my front and back, and work them both in time to awesome orgasm. Sometimes that is the event, other times it is foreplay for more.

And I know she enjoys "entering" me. It's part of our game, at times, to enter each other. I have access to three, she has only two, and I think that the power associated with entering a taboo spot, particularly in men, is good for her libido.

The strap-on actually came to me in a dream wherein she was fucking me doggy-style, stroking my cock part of the time. (Needless to say, I rolled her over and we had a romp in the middle of the night--although I have to admit I was not on all fours.)

I don't view myself as the sub--ever. But in this case it feels "right," but how to go about it . . . . We have no toys, only the occasional lubricant as we are both extremely wet.

Thanks for the reply. And I hope you can provide a little more insight.