Back and Foot Rubs

[weirdloadsbureau]

Ok, this has little to do with sex and more to do with giving and receiving preferences. My beautiful wife loves having her back and feet rubbed. I try my best to offer every now and then without her having to ask but I have trouble doing that because I personally hate back and foot rubs. I think they hurt.

She thinks I'm crazy but I think there are lots of people who don't like them. I'd love some opinions.

[Buck Naked]

My wife and I both appreciate a good massage. I usually give her a full body rub down once a month. She really loves it.

As for the pain element, I get my wife a gift certificate every year for professional massages. Those therapists can really cause some discomfort and if she can stand that, there's nothing that I could do to top it.

[dlb]

I think it has quite a bit to do with sex weirdloadsbureau. I can't count the times that backrubs, footrubs or both have led to sex. They also led to me learning to to give and have total body orgasms. Now what I find amusing about your poll is the number of choices of response that use the word hurt. One of the most painful experiences of my life was a foot massage I had in China. I couldn't walk well for days afterward.

[Buck Naked]

Originally Posted by dlb

I think it has quite a bit to do with sex weirdloadsbureau. I can't count the times that backrubs, footrubs or both have led to sex. They also led to me learning to to give and have total body orgasms. Now what I find amusing about your poll is the number of choices of response that use the word hurt. One of the most painful experiences of my life was a foot massage I had in China. I couldn't walk well for days afterward.

Exactly. If you have someone that knows what they're doing and give you a deep tissue massage, they hurt like hell. I heard about those Chinese foot massages and they are at the top of the painful massages category.

The massages I give to my wife are relaxing, but they always lead to more. I'm only human and rubbing down my wife's naked body isn't going to make me wanna go to sleep.

[weirdloadsbureau]

Originally Posted by Buck Naked

My wife and I both appreciate a good massage. I usually give her a full body rub down once a month. She really loves it.

As for the pain element, I get my wife a gift certificate every year for professional massages. Those therapists can really cause some discomfort and if she can stand that, there's nothing that I could do to top it.

Do you find them painful or comfortable?

[weirdloadsbureau]

Originally Posted by dlb

I think it has quite a bit to do with sex weirdloadsbureau. I can't count the times that backrubs, footrubs or both have led to sex. They also led to me learning to to give and have total body orgasms. Now what I find amusing about your poll is the number of choices of response that use the word hurt. One of the most painful experiences of my life was a foot massage I had in China. I couldn't walk well for days afterward.

When she tries to give me back and foot massages it has nothing to do with sex. She is trying to give me non-sexual massages like those you would pay for. I find them very painful, but I have a sensitive back and feet.

[dlb]

I suggest a book and maybe a course on massage. There are different kinds of massage. None should be painful although techniques can vary. Massages don't have to be sexual, but often lead to sex. I think of sex as more than direct stimulation of the genitals.

[LiL_TrUbLe]

I just bought a book last week it has good info on massages and well other things sexual like how to give oral on a man or a woman but any ways the part about the massages is good very detailed.

You can also order some DVDs they have clips on their website I have not order them but by the clips they look good, step by step techniques you might want to give it a try.

Its called “Red Hot Touch” A head to toe handbook for mind blowing orgasms, by Jaiya and Jhn Hanauer with Julie Jeffries

But the 1st chapters are about massages I recommend it, the other parts are good also.