Bad Boy vs Nice Guy battle for ladies

[Lost one]

I read an interesting article from a woman talking about how women are insecure and want bad boys, but how foolish it is for disliking a man who treats them good.

Who do you really want to be with?

[constantlylearning]

I think that is an interesting question and the replies should be interesting
as well........I would go a step further and state WHY....what makes the
decision between the two diverse men.

[lnt1103]

I went through a time where I wanted a bad boy....and I ended up deciding it was because I thought I could change them and therefore fill my own need to be needed. Then I had a time where I was literally with an Eagle Scout, thinking he was therefore the 'good guy' I needed, but he turned out to be just as bad for me as the bad boys were.

What I want, and have, is the true good guy. He's understanding, caring, playful, adorable (not only physically), he 'gets it' as I would call it (once traveled 180 miles to walk in a fundraising walk with me because he could tell the cause was important to me-now what do you say about that besides awesome?)

[sera300]

These were never my type mean men/boys. Now if a bad boy image in the sense of rebellion? Dated a few when much, much younger...it was my rebellion against my parents. If a man or guy treated me not so great I dumped the date.

[smallestoftheclan]

I think we all want to be noticed by the bad boy, and date him but I think for the long term we want the good boy.
The one that can provide us stability to grow old together.

[sania]

Its very difficult to know who is good boy or bad boy looking at his face. And its relative thing. Good or bad in what way ? eg a girl does not like giving oral. and Boy likes him given bj. He is bad boy. Although not.

Sometimes it happens that so-called good girls enjoy bad boys.

According to me, a bad boy is that who does know about sex or is impotent or less capable of performing. Else everything is fair in love and sex.
And a good guy is that who has all above and is carring for opposite sex.