10-02-2008, 09:30 AM
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My younger brother got married about 6 months after our mom died. He lived in Colorado and my mom and dad lived in Michigan so most of the people at the wedding knew my mom had past away yet as I had moved home the year before didn't know who I as. I walked with my dad up the aisle, and even though it wasn't my wedding day it is a memory stuck in my mind. As we walked up the aisle everyone was vocal in wondering if I was my dad's girlfriend. Let's see he, my dad, was 68 and I was 25. Yes he was that adorable. Then it was no no no that's his sister. It was a very interesting walk up that aisle. That and having to almost physically sit on my dad to keep him from dragging one of the groomsman out of the church. This groomsman was totally drunk and weaving during the ceremony. Dang I havent smiled this much in a long time.
And as I have posted previously I have a cousin, by marriage, that I was freaked out a little by when reading an email asking me to stand in for my cousin, his late wife, at two of their son's weddings this past summer. The sentence "still looking for a date" gave me a shiver. Now I have know this man since I was 4 and he married my cousin when I was 8 so HE is my cousin, at least in my brain. I love him, like all my cousins, and as I am the oldest female on that side when I say "my men" he is one of the men that is included. Mess with my men you mess with me! Incest is wrong, I don't see it having any productive part in society. Infidelity is wron and again I don't see it having any productive part in society. If you have to justify then I think you also see that. 
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10-02-2008, 03:57 PM
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I guess my cousin's husband would depend on what he is asking; as a guest to accompany him to prevent feeling awkward or as a date. I also think much would do with how close you are as a family. I would not have an issue with it unless he looked at it as a romantic date. If just an escort which is a family member not related through blood? It would depend on if it is merely a family obligation.
Often have been out with family; once went to the store with my brother & his small daughter. I was engaged and always wore my ring. As we are seeking stuff his wife needed; I am pushing the cart with his very young daughter & looking around. He is catching a glimpse of some hot woman in the isle, two elderly women come up behind me & say you "poor thing" inferring my spouse is glancing at the young woman while I am pushing the baby in the cart! I laughed so hard...often have accompanied my brother to funerals when we both were good friends with the deceased & his wife did not grow up with the person. However, that's the end! No dancing especially since he will not dance with anyone while out--even his wife (I don't mean slow dancing)! Often as I said can go out to the store to pick up items with my Dad; people think he is with some younger woman...I am fast to introduce myself & him as my father! Is funny how people automatically make assumptions!
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10-02-2008, 04:08 PM
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and voices carry in a church...I was more concerned about my dad, he had lost his wife of forever, he was 21 when they met, only 6 months prior to this and this was a joyous, or at least was suppose to be, event.
As this was in Colorado and him and my mom living in Michigan, the bride had never met my mom, most people were seeing my dad for the first time. I had lived out there a couple years before so I had met the bride. A little put off that as the only sister of the groom I had not been asked to be a part of the wedding party. I found the chatter to be rude.
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10-04-2008, 07:19 AM
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Incest
My sister and I read the points some of you have made, but have decided that our sexual relationship is our choice and we will live with the consequences. We care and love each other very much and have fantastic sex. It would be nice if we could get together more than once or twice a week though. Whoever brought up about the "wife" fulfilling the husbands need, well in my case she doesn't. My sister fulfills my needs of anal, facials and golden showers along with oral and vaginal sex. Those are somethings my wife won't do. Also, my wife won't videotape ourselves having sex, but my sister loves it. We get to watch ourselves and masturbate when we can't get together. Like I said this is the greatest sex I ever had, so just because you may not agree with it, it doesn't mean its wrong.
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10-04-2008, 08:04 AM
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boneman8 - I'm not judging you in any way, but there are laws against adultery and incest. So really, society views what you are doing as "wrong". I have always said that what consenting adults do in the privacy of their bedroom is their business as long as no one gets hurt. As a happily married man I would never do anything to hurt my family. Obviously you are not very happy in your marriage. There are many things I would like to try, but, my wife is not into it. I accept that and move on. I don't look elsewhere.
I pose this question to you...are you subconsciously trying to destroy your marriage?
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10-04-2008, 08:27 AM
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I am really beginning to doubt the truthfulness of the boneman; perhaps he is just trying to get a rise out of everyone? Adultery? Well, tough since it's not prosecuted. Incest? I am doubting ANY validity to his posts due to the content.
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10-04-2008, 08:30 AM
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Actually, I love my wife very much! I'm not trying to destroy anything. We have an excellent sex life also. I am an extremely horny guy and have sex daily. There are certain "needs" I have and my sister is willing to fulfill them. My sister also has needs am I am more than willing to help her.
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10-04-2008, 08:47 AM
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10-04-2008, 01:11 PM
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I have no idea how you can say that you love your wife and cheat on her. Let's put aside the fact it's with your sister for a minute because that's another issue entirely. How can you look your wife in the eye and not feel the shame of lying to her? I don't understand that mentality. As for being a "horny guy", get in line. I would assume that 99% of the males on this board fit that category...myself included. I would never use that, or my wife's apprehension towards a specific sex act, as an excuse to cheat. I don't mean to be rude, but I respect the sanctity of marriage. I love my wife and would put a bullet in my head if I caused her any pain. What you're talking about makes absolutely no sense to me.
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10-04-2008, 02:08 PM
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“The only unnatural sex act is that which cannot be preformed” – Dr. Alfred Kinsey. As long as what you do is fully consensual I have no problem with you having sex with your sister. That being said I would never ever have sexual relations with a family member. But if you are lying to your wife then there is a problem there. I have no problem with open relationships but you need to tell your partner that you are having sex with other people. You are both lying and putting your partner in danger.
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