I don't think it's dirty. There has been a time I did consider his come this way, but not anymore. I think that was mainly about letting go of such 'learned' thoughts. In my opinion and experience "making love" is like this: we share our pleasure, we share our bodies, we share our energy, we share our fluids, in a way we become one and love becomes flesh. So whenever he doesn't come inside me, I want it close to my body, on me 
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The Red Rose whispers of passion
and the White Rose breathes of love
Oh, the Red Rose is a falcon
and the White Rose is a dove
But I send you a cream-white rose bud
with a flush on its petal tips
For the love that is purest and sweetest
has a kiss of desire on the lips
~ John Boyle O'Reilly 1844-1890
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