Make-out Sessions - Who Here Doesnt Enjoy?

[Ducy]

A good ol' fashion make out session? Yes totally random but since me and my girlfriend have gone on an spree of abstinence, I have realized more and more my love of makeing out....

Who here would love just a good make out without anything else...I guess I should probably ask....who here thinks they could handle 45 minutes of making out without going any farther than perhaps a graze of your hand against your partners but?


Me personally...I know I could do it....and really wish I could do it more often.

[Ducy]

OH! and Im not talking about forever...just once in a while.

[dancingdoc2]

> I guess I should probably ask....who here thinks they could handle 45 minutes of making out without going any farther than perhaps a graze of your hand against your partners but?

I believe you are asking the opposite question that should be asked. So many of the concerns we answer hinge on couples (mostly lead by the guys) wondering why the sexual side of their relationship is having problems. Much of the time the reasons stem from not spending this time making out, going right to the genitals with little prep for the foreplay.

How about a poll to go along with this that asks the question "who here thinks they need to make out for 45 minutes without going any farther before your hand moves beyond your partner's butt?"

[eminatic]

i didnt vote....im not really a fan of kissing. my guy always wants to kiss me very deeply and i always end up trying to pull away until i end up craning my neck in some wierd position lol

[Brandye]

One of the great beauties of woman on woman relationships is the high ratio of cuddle-time to sex-time.

Long chats in the bathtub; sitting and touching; hugging and gentle kissing, etc, then off to sleep. Neither or either or both may choose to do more but stopping at any point is natural and normal. By our definition here, it is making out with no real goal.

OK, men do neat things for me, too, with a real goal - ejaculating with my help and leaving me with a little liquid gift. This, too, can be enjoyable and keeps me a bit in the hetero- game.

[Ducy]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

I believe you are asking the opposite question that should be asked. So many of the concerns we answer hinge on couples (mostly lead by the guys) wondering why the sexual side of their relationship is having problems. Much of the time the reasons stem from not spending this time making out, going right to the genitals with little prep for the foreplay.

How about a poll to go along with this that asks the question "who here thinks they need to make out for 45 minutes without going any farther before your hand moves beyond your partner's butt?"

well I did realize I made this poll wrong a while after i posted...But honestly like I dont mean who thinks they need more makeout time, I just mean it more of making out with no go...I know why the sexual part of our relationship isnt doing as great as others....or well right now existent....And its fine...its actually been beneficiall to both of us....(I realized a lot of things about myself and why i like to fool around so much)....so I was just kinda curious about who would like to just kiss their significant other with no goal other than to just kiss?

[tommy_tucker]

i like making out but i think the whole part is making out should involve touching each other up, even if it is just the bum

[machine_rat]

It's one of those sad facts of life that as you get older, you tend to move away from those lonf make-out sessions.

I'm not calling it immature, but making out was awesome as a presexual teenager, for the simple fact of not really knowing anything else. Generally speaking, women tend to be the ones who crave the make out time for the emotional bond, while men see it as a means to get to something more physically gratifying.

[cyclefreak]

I don't really agree with that last statement. I think that as you get older you tend to focus a lot more on hugging and kissing than the actual sex. I think that is true for males as much as for females (speaking from personal experience).

(I'm assuming by "make out" you mean hugging and kissing without sex, which I expect is the American definition. The meaning here in Australia is a bit more ambiguous. If somebody here said that they 'made out' with someone, it would usually mean that they had sex with them.)