Talk after sex?

[sera300]

Originally Posted by eminatic

lol i was more referring to giving each other feedback on our performance after sex than conversing about everything in general

I know what you meant, as indicated in my first reply...I was kidding with Yariome in the subsequent...

[eminatic]

Originally Posted by Yariome

In my experience i'd say at least 9/14 all wanted to talk about irrilevent stuff.

lol maybe they just felt the need to say anything so they wouldn't have to sit in silence...or something like that haha

[Yariome]

Could very well be true, although talking about how they are going to decorate their apartments is different :-P

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Yariome

Could very well be true, although talking about how they are going to decorate their apartments is different :-P

Wait until you are married and the conversations which strike up after a nice long session of lovemaking. In past experience, there is talk about sex, wishes to enjoy together, then there are times when you feel more open with your spouse and other matters jump into the conversation, vacation, finances, re-painting the bedroom, etc. I believe many feel more open and able to communicate; therefore, take that as an opportunity to deeply discuss whatever may be on their minds. Obviously much depends w/this thread if this is a partner, boyfriend or girlfriend, new date, or a spouse.

[Webby]

It depends though, my boyfriend really likes to cuddle after and sometimes we'll talk depending on how tired we both are - mostly it's about what i liked the most or vise versa or it will be the plan for the next day.... haha it all depends

[SexyChocolate]

I love to cuddle and talk basically bask in the glow.

[Sinful Mizery]

I always have long talks with my girl friend after we have sex. Unless we went for a real long time and when that happens we both end up taking a nap. lol

[seetherboa]

Normally when we talk after sex, it leads to him asking whether or not I want him to clean up the mess my vagina made (cunnilingus)... lol... otherwise, we just talk about random things like what we are going to do the next day, who's going to clean up the snake cages, walk the dog, etc.

[johnweek1]

I dont mind talking with my girl after. But we usually just snuggle and cuddle.