What Did Mom Teach You About Sex? Females Only

[Suki2007]

Originally Posted by BTDTWoman

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?

No one.


2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure

no


3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure

no


4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
Yes No Not Sure

no


5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
Yes No Not Sure

no


6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
Yes No Not Sure

no


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
Yes No Not Sure

no, but I was taught at church that it was a sin.


8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
Yes No Not Sure

no


9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?

I learned about how babies are born really young, probably through reading books, PBS and animal channel. I knew about sex very young because my Mom and step dad would have loud sex all the time.


10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?

Learned it through tv and books.

11. How old are you today?

27


12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

Ever since I can remember, I don't know.


13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

Hawaii


14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

Asian/White


15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

White


16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?

She has a high school diploma.


Is there anything more that you want to add? Please feel free to post your thoughts here or send me a private message. Thanks again for your time!

Most of my sex education came through school sex ed, friends, movies, tv and books. I have only in the last year had conversations with my Mother about sex. My younger sisters and I have always talked about sexual things, but everyone else in the family never really talked about it at all. I think a lot of it is the way we were brought up in a religious household.

[Sylvia]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?

**My mom.

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure

**Yes.

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure

**Yes. I guess - I mean its there.

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
Yes No Not Sure

**Yes - but maybe not with that word, at least not until later.

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
Yes No Not Sure

**No.

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
Yes No Not Sure

**No. Not really - just kinda that it exists, but she didn't like TALK about it.

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
Yes No Not Sure

**Not really - not directly. I kind of knew, but it wasnt directly TOLD.

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
Yes No Not Sure

**NO.

If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?

**Just part of the whole sex thing - I mean - to have babies yah - but also that sex is a nice thing with someone who is "special" - I mean its not like she made a big coverup about it or anything - she was pretty honest.

10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?

**To pee out of, of course! I mean before I heard any sex stuff lol. As part of the sex info, it was like what she said in the prev. Q. Pretty truthfull. But she didnt say they got so big lol!

11. How old are you today?

**19.

12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

**"Called a vagina" - you mean the name? I heard it at the doctor sometime, like maybe 6. I knew it was there before that lol.

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

**Some state in America.

14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

**White.

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

**White.

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?

**College degree.

[curious_woman]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?

My mother.

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?

No.

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?

Not sure.

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?

Yes.

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?

No, but it wouldn't have matter since I come with penetration.

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?

Not until I had already done it, but she didn't know that.

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:

She just said it was normal and a lot of women did it.

7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?

Yeah.

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

My mother told me its alright to be gay/bi/whatever I wanted. She told me some women prefer being in relationships with other women, because they don't get along with men and sometimes easier to be in a relationship with someone who thinks more similar than men and women.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?

No.

If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?

My mother told me it is for having sex and having babies.

10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?

She told me cock's are for going to the bathroom, and going inside a woman to make her pregnant.

11. How old are you today?

18

12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

Damn...no idea, really young lol.

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

Canada

14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

White

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?

White

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?

She has numerous degrees.

Is there anything more that you want to add? Please feel free to post your thoughts here or send me a private message. Thanks again for your time!

[bruins76]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?

I learned by friends talking, movies, magazines, & school, no one taught me anything. I wasn't even told that I'd have a period growing up, I thought I was dying when I discovered "aunt flo" so all of the below is n/a

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
n/a

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
n/a

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
n/a

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
n/a

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
n/a

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
n/a

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
n/a

If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?

n/a

10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?


n/a

11. How old are you today?

31

12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?

10-ish

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
I was born in Canada & raised in Canada until I turned 10

14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
I am white

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
white

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?

My mother has her college degree

Is there anything more that you want to add? Please feel free to post your thoughts here or send me a private message. Thanks again for your time!

[goodinbed]

When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?
Mother
2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure
yes

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure
no
4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
Yes No Not Sure
no

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
Yes No Not Sure
no
6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
no

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
Yes No Not Sure
no

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
Yes No Not Sure
no
If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?
babies



10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?
purpose is to have babies


11. How old are you today?
14
12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
7

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
New York, United States
14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
white

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
white

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?
associates degree

[crispy013]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?
Older Siser

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
Yes

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
Not Sure

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
No

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
No

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
No

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
No

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
No

If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?
She went into full detail....with drawings and everything.


10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?
same as above


11. How old are you today?
40
12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
Always knew

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
Ill.
14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
White
15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
White
16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?
High School
Is there anything more that you want to add? Please feel free to post your thoughts here or send me a private message. Thanks again for your time!

[BTDTWoman]

Thank you, thank you, thank you! You are giving me great information that supports my theories about the sex education of girls in their families.

[LittleFury]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?
Noone. I found a kid's book about sex and where babies come from when I was 13 in her closet

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
No

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
No

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
No

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
No

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
No

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
Somewhat. She said it was a mental disease


8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
No.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?
Never told me anything about it


10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?
Nothing


11. How old are you today?
24

12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
High school?

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
CA

14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
White

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
White

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?
Highest education a doctor could get in Russia

[marija2m2]

1. When you were growing up, who in your family or extended family provided you with the most information about sex and sexual body parts?
no one my mother i guess (friends second)

2. Did this person inform you that you had a clitoris as well as a vagina?
Yes No Not Sure
a vagina yes clitoris no

3. Did this person inform you that you had a vulva as well as a vagina?
no

4. Did this person inform you that girls and women can have orgasms?
no mom ( friends yes)

5. Did this person inform you that female orgasms are usually experienced through stimulation of the clitoris rather than vaginal intercourse?
no

6. Did this person provide you with any information about female masturbation?
no

If your answer to 6 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about female masturbation:


7. Did this person provide you with any information about same-sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality?
yes my mom said it was wrong

If your answer to 7 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about same sex female relationships and lesbian sexuality.

8. Did this person provide you with any information about sex toys or vibrators?
no

If your answer to 8 is Yes, please tell me a little about the information you were given about sex toys or vibrators.

9. What did this person tell you about why girls have a vagina? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a girl's vagina?
to have babies and pee



10. What did this person tell you about why boys have a penis? That is, what were your taught about the purpose of a boy's penis?
to use woman for sex and have babies

11. How old are you today?
28

12. How old were you when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
about 6 or 8

13. Which state or country did you live in when you first learned that you had something called a vagina?
usa

14. Are you Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
white

15. Was your mother Latina, Black, Asian, White, or Native American?
white

16. What is the last grade of school that your mother had completed when you first learned that you had a vagina? Did she have a college degree? Did she have more education than a college degree?
highschool education for clothes making she came from a small country and lived in a very small community and was raised in a very catholic house overly catholic

[MyMoonbeam]

My mom and I never really had "the talk." I found out what I needed to know mostly in sex ed in school and the internet.