What's more intimate: sex or oral?

[roxypuppy]

I remember a while back, a friend of mine was discussing on how she thought oral was more intimate than vaginal sex. Being a virgin, I had no real input, but am curious as to what everyone else thought.

[tikteka57]

vagina all the way! you are close and you can kiss and stuff

[SexySass69]

I say niether!

It really depends on the scenario because I've had both be really intimate, but I've also experienced both without any real intimacy because it was one of those "I just really need to get off" kind of things. Intimacy depends on the relationship in my mind, not the act.

[justjack]

Yeah i agree with sexysass, it depends on the person you're doing it with and the mood whilst you're doing it

[LadyBug02]

Definitely vaginal sex. I don't know why but for some reason it is just more intimate. I do absolutely love oral sex though. Unfortunately my boyfriend is not willing to go down on me.

[eminatic]

oral sex is a big turnoff for me but i will still do it occasionally. vaginal is far more intimate.

[dancingdoc2]

The vagina is the gateway to a woman's soul. Placing P into V is a way of becoming one with the other for a moment in time as the psyches meet.

[sania]

Because my hubby likes oral. But i definitely enjoy vaginal

[Rouge]

I remember this from my partner more than I. Before we were together, we would have sex, but he wouldn't go down on me. It was too intimate for him.

I generally won't give head unless I'm at a decent level of comfort with the person. They have to work to have my mouth on them!

[lnt1103]

OK, here's one more confirmation that I must just be weird (as if I needed another one LOL). When I think 'intimate', honestly, I think foreplay. Maybe it's just because we mostly do face-riding and cowgirl, or in the case of me giving oral I'm usually lined up with him, between his legs, him on his back (I know that sounds boring but it's where my delivery is best). But we seem so much closer to each other (in physical proximity) and can focus on each other so much better during foreplay.