What's more intimate: sex or oral?

[Babyycakkez]

i would say vaginal because you actually get the feeling in lol
tho oral is great too

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by LadyBug02

Definitely vaginal sex. I don't know why but for some reason it is just more intimate. I do absolutely love oral sex though. Unfortunately my boyfriend is not willing to go down on me.

Intercourse is more intimate because it plays directly to the psyches and emotions.

For the most intense climaxes, then it is hard to beat the h/j & b/j dynamic duo.

Foreplay and intercourse are both intimate activities. If you equate intimacy with a connection to the psyche then this is more "intimate". If as a couple you have not reached this stage of your relationship then oral is the most intimate for the time being.

[Rouge]

I'd have to disagree (personally). There are a bunch of people that I would have sex with, but none of them would be receiving oral. Ironically amidst the range of things that are a part of my repertoire, getting on my knees (or whatever) and sucking a random guy's cock is the one thing that could make me feel degraded. In the loving relationship that I'm in, I don't feel degraded, as it's not just another bj.

In intercourse I'm getting something out of it, giving oral, I'm not unless in interest for my partner.

[sania]

Oral, is more intimate. You speak with mouth. Accepting your partner with your mouth makes him feel satisfied. His satisfaction satisfies you.

[pinkFlames]

Giving or receiving oral sex is way more intimate than vaginal especially if a woman is receiving oral. It takes a lot of trust and lack of inhibition to allow a man to put his face between our legs.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Viginal?

The act with the greatest risk also carries the greatest intimacy because there is no where to run, nowhere to hide. At best, oral is an appetizer hinting at greater glories to come. His beloved, hair askew, sweating, riding him with her ejaculate on his saddle going for more - much more fun than just another blow job.

If in doubt, just ask him.

[Buck Naked]

Vaginal sex is as close as a man and a woman can get to each other. The fact both partners are getting sexual pleasure puts it over the top. In my opinion oral is in line with anal and mutual masturbation. They are acts that are exciting, but don't necessarily offer both partners the same level of pleasure.

[sania]

Originally Posted by Buck Naked

Vaginal sex is as close as a man and a woman can get to each other. The fact both partners are getting sexual pleasure puts it over the top. In my opinion oral is in line with anal and mutual masturbation. They are acts that are exciting, but don't necessarily offer both partners the same level of pleasure.

Buck Naked , you are absolutely correct. Both partner getting pleasure from same act at same time is the real defination of intimate. Oral is a Catalyst to fire the act but the ultimate pleasure to both comes from normal sex ie Vaginal.
I agree with Buck Naked 100 %.

[weirdloadsbureau]

Crap I meant to vote vaginal.

[ThickMami]

Its funny, I actually asked my husband this question when I saw it and he agreed vaginal sex is more intimate. Which surprised me....

I thought he would say oral. But then he explained he loves oral but its more dirtier and more of an appetizer (like evil kitten put it).