Masterbation

[yumi]

When I am away, like now, i do it. and i tell him too, he does it too, he tells me

[pinklady9]

we both no we do. we just dont no wen.

[BTDTWoman]

Originally Posted by foxdan

do you masterbate without your partner knowing?

I have never seen the connection between the two. Solitary masturbation is sex for one; no one else is involved, so it is no one else's business. Getting upset in any way about a partner's masturbation seems weird, possessive, and downright unwholesome to me.

I find that an increased frequency of solitary masturbation has the effect of increasing my overall libido and wanting even more sex with myself and others. The idea that your libido might be drained by masturbating is rooted in the old idea that masturbating is debilitating and leads to mental or physical illness, not to mention those hairy palms and zits.

[sad_dreamer]

Yeah I do, she knows I do but I like to keep it to my self.. Dunno why kind of a secret garden thing i guess.
As far as I know, she only pleases herself when I'm with her and very rarely on her own.

[athena]

if he cared to ask i would tell him the truth. i know that he does and most of the time when he does.

[machine_rat]

I'd like to think that my wife doesn't know that I masturbate. The only times I do are when she's not home (when else?) or while I'm in the shower (wash away all the evidence).

Perhaps it's selfish because she has no problem playing with herself in front of me.

I always feel like I'm 'making up for lost time', having never pleasured myself until I was almost 19... not that I know what the average age is for first timers.

[dinger57]

She knows. and also loves to watch

[rc74]

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[Di69]

Yes. He don't need to know everything.

[wannaplayMr. Postman]

My wife knows I do, but she doesn't know when. I would do it right in front of her and let her watch if she wanted to, but she's never showed any interest in it.