Orgasm without ejaculation - less pleasurable? For Men

[djamesfloyd]

The very first time I had sex I had two orgasms. She gave me a blowjob, and I came, but we just kept on going, and went on to have sex. The next orgasm was blank because it was shortly after the first, but it felt just as good.

[dinger57]

The feeling is aright but it never will feel as good as masturbation

[Wade_Wilson]

i have ejacuculated with an extrodinaraly weak orgasm to the point whare i might as well not have taken the time quite a few times,usually while masturbating. its really a let down because its usualy one that takes forever

[GodHimselfx100]

im a guy and its possible since iv done it. its hard tho and its not as good but the pleasure barely goes down so for me i had about 5 orgasms without cumming in about 3 or 4 minutes and just to give u a point of refrence normally it takes me about 15 to 45 minutes depending on a bunch of things for one orgasm and if i cum then it takes longer for the second. Some days i cant do it tho. u have to use ur PC muscle or watever its called which takes a long time to strengthen till u can do it. u hav to focus and relax it while u rnt about to orgasm and then right before u cum flex the muscle as tight as u can and hold it for as long as it takes till u dont hav to cum anymore which is for me between 20 seconds to more then 30 (thats as long as i can flex). the key is timing. wait till as late as physically possible. i only hav like a fraction of second to get the time right to actually orgasm.

[GodHimselfx100]

iv tried about 50 times and about 15 times i came and orgasmed about 25 times i barely came (like one drop) and orgasmed (and actually that has the same effect as not cumming at all cause u stay hard and the pleasure stays high) and about 10 times no cum but i had an orgasm. Also u shud strengthen ur PC muscle (if that is wat its called) anyway as it makes everything feel better and gives u better control. If i focus on not ever flexing it i can last a lot longer but when u flex it and and then relax it and flex it again and alternate it brings me to orgasm much much faster. when i had sex i kept it relaxed and i cud hav lasted for a lot longer then i did (it was 32 minutes and yes i did time it). but after she got to tired to move i flexed for one second then relaxed for one second and alternated and got to orgasm in about 20 seconds after i started that.

[cyclefreak]

Well, I've ejaculated without having an orgasm (not really much fun), but not the other way around.

[DVDBear]

Originally Posted by cyclefreak

Well, I've ejaculated without having an orgasm (not really much fun), but not the other way around.

I would think that's rarer. I know I've never done it. I have orgasmed without cumming, or at least nothing came out. As others have said if I've blown recently that's not unusual.

[Ducy]

Yea I have had that happen actually a good deal when I was around 16 and hit my peak for masturbating lol. I would masturbat (just a quickie) and I would basically just build up and up and up and then i would ejaculate...no orgasm just like are you kidding me...all that work just for that....

[DVDBear]

Wow, bodies are amazing in their diversity aren't they? That's something I've never experienced (not that it sounds like I've missed much!! lol) The idea of ejaculating without an orgasm is just weird to me!

[cyclefreak]

Originally Posted by DVDBear

I would think that's rarer. I know I've never done it. I have orgasmed without cumming, or at least nothing came out. As others have said if I've blown recently that's not unusual.

Its actually happened to me a few times, but usually only after a long period of abstinence. I think what happens is that I approach the point of orgasm, but because of the volume of semen in store it gets released before an orgasm happens. When this has happened, it has usually just flowed out in a steady stream. Trouble is, though, that seems to take away the need to orgasm and my erection will then usually subside (darn!). But not to worry, in that situation I've found that my recovery period is quite short, and I am usually able to go again fairly soon. Its a fairly rare occurrence though.