anal orgasam?!?

[PAcouple]

when me and my hubby have anal sex, it hurts like hell until a "lightswitch" goes off. when it goes off, anal starts to feel really good. is that considered to be an anal orgasam? if not, can anyone tell me how it feels...thanx

[dancingdoc2]

I do not believe there is such an event as an anal orgasm--except for a man whose penis is being stimulated from the activity. As for the person on the receiving end of any/all anal stimulation the sensitive nerves there serve to intensify those sensations generated from other forms of stimulation--like what your hands/fingers, mouth and tongue are doing elsewhere.

Because the nerves in the region as well as the prostate in men contribute in a major way to a persons pleasure, they should be involved when a person is really turned on for maximum effect.

> when me and my hubby have anal sex, it hurts like hell

I have addressed this matter many times. Here it is again. In my never to be so humble opinion, insertion of a toy/dildo or penis should always follow some "teasing" by a finger in order to condition the sphincters into accepting an object going inside. In addition, inserting a very well lubricated finger is necessary in order to distribute the lubrication around the two sphincter muscles along the passageway. These done, then a toy or penis can follow.

It is also adviseable to use pressure to insert anything. Never poke, push, or shove something into the anus! There is absolutely no reason why anal play should hurt. If it does, then one and/or both of you are doing things incorrectly. If there is some discomfort, then stop the proceedings and add more lube to the affected area. The membranes should never become chafed.

I hope this is of help

[shaved bi]

I love it when my prostate gets rubbed during anal sex.

[DVDBear]

Some guys can actually cum from that without touching their penis. I've come really close on a few occasions but still needed to work my dick to get all the way. But not much . . . . I was right at the trigger point.

[Brandye]

I assume that the last two posts are off the mark and we are talking about the female experience of anal sex. An orgasm is an orgasm. Although I do not allow anal penetration with a penis (old timers have read my rants on this), I do really get off with rimming. What occurs as a result of any type of anal stimulation is that the anal sphincter muscles get involved. That is a very strong set of muscles and gives very intense feeling when contracting in orgasm.

What you describe as a "lightswitch" is your muscles (including the anal sphincters) simply relaxing and accepting something passing through in the wrong direction. The anus is, after all, a one-way valve.

[HotBody71]

Lets see here......Yes a woman can have an orgasm from anal sex because the location of her G-Spot is directly near the inner wall in her vainal canal parallel to her anus...there is a thin area of tissue that seperates the anal canal and your vagina.....so if enough stimulation is getting to your g-spot...yes it can happen....

[Old Kid]

From what I understand, the G-spot is suposedly located along the front wall(belly side) of the vagina. Think it would be sort of hard to get to from her rear end.

[dinger57]

I love anal and it gives my a felling all over my body that I almost pass out

[Ducy]

What about the posterior fornix? I mean its located below the cervix, closer to the anus than the g-spot. Perhaps he is rubbing in just a way that after you relax, you really feel the stimulation on the fornix.