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Old 03-12-2004, 12:40 PM
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Ok, here's one of my favorite things to do - watch and be watched. No matter how you replied to the poll, it's time to chime in on one of the subject of Voyeurism and Exhibitionism. I'd prefer not to have this turn into a debate on the LEGAL aspects of V/E, rather, what YOU think about it. What have you done in the past. What are your fantasies. What are your limits?
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Since i set up this topic/poll, i'll go first! Here's some of what i'm into when it comes to V/E:

1) Webcam: I love this ALOT! My webcam allows me to watch and be watched at my discretion. No matter if i use Yahoo, ICUII, PALTALK, iFRIENDS, etc. ...the webcam affords me a safe and fun outlet for my voyeuristic/exhibionistic desires. I can choose who i let watch, if i want to chat or not, use toys or dress up in a certain way, or whatever. Somtimes I even get my partner to join!

2) Semi-Public: From leaving the shades open at home or at a hotel, to making love on the beach behind the dunes, to fooling aroudn in the back of the car, to actually messing around in the dark corner of the bar, this is risky, but the endorphans really kick in!
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Okay, since I'm here WAY too much, and the second person to vote (and besides I've heard you before) I knew you liked this. *But pardon me while I exercise the bitchy gene a moment and point out that these are two different topics. *

Voyeurism- this is okay and I don't know many people who won't watch if they get the chance. *I enjoy this in all forms: spontaneous, porn, live shows. *

Exhibitionism- now I've engaged in some fairly public sex in my time and probably been seen by people I didn't even know were there. *But never for the purpose of showing off. I think I've been fairly discreet- I mean, you can go to jail for this, especially if you are gay and particularly in the south. *The knowledge that you might be caught is a whole different rush than knowing you ARE being watched.

So I answered "If I'm in the mood..." Now, I'm not sure that is accurate, but it was the best I could come up with with the choices given.
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I couldn't figure out how to answer the poll, but had to post a couple of thoughts.

My theory is that we are all much more "voyeuristic" than we perhaps realize and admit. Admittedly the degrees can range from subtle to blatant... but is ogling not a simple form of voyeuring?

Ultimately it's about involving the senses (all of them!) in sexual/sensual pleasure. We become more sensual and experience higher pleasures as we allow ourselves to see, hear, touch, taste, smell...

On a different slant... is it possible to "voyeur" another's mind?

Is this too heady?

Hey, I like leaving the lights on.

And I can't resist a good downblouse/upskirt...



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Gosh, did I kill this thread?!!!

(Bumping it up.)
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Old 03-17-2004, 09:30 AM
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ahahaha.....Love the question Wally....and i think we "all" have sinned in our mind when it comes to watching and being watched.

But the poll really was designed to get a feel from the members on IF it was a part of their sexual arsenal.

Watching and being watched, by it's definition, requires an "uninvloved" person or persons. Thats the turn on, thats the rush, that's the risk!
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Well, based on the number of responses and comments, I guess we'll never know, eh? I'm a bit surprised at the apparent lack of interest in the topic.

It is, after all, the ultimate "safe sex." I went to a meeting last night... happened to sit near an attractive redhead (I have a thing for red hair). By the time the meeting was over I'd had several sexual adventures with her (in my mind! in my mind!).

No, wait. That's fantasizing, not necessarily voyeuring.

Can I get a do-over?

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Quote[/b] (Rawbob @ Mar. 12 2004,11:40)]Ok, here's one of my favorite things to do - watch and be watched.

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