Hey all you's can all see what it says in the title, basically i've been talking to this girl on msn for months and shes a friend of a friend, last week sent me a message asking if i'd fuck her, now i'm dying to but not sure how go to about it, if it helps shes invited me to her friends house party on monday. So any advice would be appreciated!
Sun, 02/13/2011 - 00:04
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Meeting girl for first time, she wants it I want it, how to get there?
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Three, what do you want out of this texting?
A. FWB
B, Sex for sex sake
C. Friendship
D. Possible relationship
Your answer will determine your course of action.
> basically i've been talking to this girl on msn for months and shes a friend of a friend
The more important question is: how often have you seen and spent one-on-one time with her? Apparently, you have you only know of her what you read; unless and until you get to know the real person and spend quality time with her, you will not know whether there is any or even enough "stuff" for a real relationship.
That said, any hot sex will most likely be just sex for sex sake. For you this means just getting your jollies. Now, there is nothing wrong with this, yet you must understand, there is not love for the sex to be the outward expression of.
If I were you, I'd man up, and date the girl and see if there is any real chemistry between you before trying to get inside her panties. Doing so will put meaning into your actions. When and if you ever do have sex, make sure:
A. she is on the pill or using some other form of highly reliable form of contraception
B. you are wearing a condom
C. the two of you have a third line of protection--spermicide!
Never rely upon your partner for your protection.
> last week sent me a message asking if i'd fuck her, now i'm dying to but not sure how go to about it, if it helps shes invited me to her friends house party on monday. So any advice would be appreciated!
Good idea to attend. Bad idea to get any ideas about having your way with each other. Save this for another time when the two of you know each other better. There can be a vast difference between a written personality and a living breathing in your face personality. If you want to do anything at all, just begin making out and limit your explorations to this and this only.
Do some kissing and cuddling
Do some Necking (above the shoulders)
Do some Petting (below the shoulders with clothes on)
Save the Heavy Petting (clothes (partially)off) and Foreplay for another day and time. Show some respect for her.
As for how to go about any of this: please read the articles.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-doc
Ya I would wait. I mean if you want to just totally risk it then go for it.
Why don't you put down your laptop, phone, xbox live chat. And go out and meet people face to face. One night stands and hook ups with girls you never have met are generally disappointing. I met a girlthrough facebook. Her pics were gorgeous. She was sexy. I talked to her for several weeks. She wanted to hook up.
I went to her house. Knocked on the door. I thought her roomate answered the door....it was her...
All 225 lbs of her...
Now don't get me wrong. Everyone is pretty. People should be happy with themselves. But I was completely expecting this 110 lb long brunette hair that was plastered all over her facebook and the pics I got from her via cell phone...
Then I found out that she had "gained" a little weight...and she sorta shaved her head...
It was very...very awkward...
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> i've been talking to this girl on msn for months and shes a friend of a friend, last week sent me a message asking if i'd fuck her, now i'm dying to but not sure how go to about it, if it helps shes invited me to her friends house party on monday.
ArianaCary, what does your reply, above, have to do with the original concern?
-doc
What do you mean you don't know how to go about it?
Haven't you read the sticky posts "The Program" and "Body Worship" ??
That's how you go about it. Condoms are MANDATORY.
and Ducy - LOL - so sorry, buddy but yeah - that would be awkward.
Ya it was very odd. Similair occurance for my friend. Found a girl on craigslist. She was using her high school photo but she was actually in her late 20's and was very unnattractive.