Sorry...there's a thing that says "imagine yourself as then" in the second paragraph...I meant to say "imagein yourself as the man"!!

I hope my info helps you out!!

Okay, well I have some info for you that might help. I too used to hate being on top because I felt awkward. My movements were bouncy and uncoordinated and I would get tired very quickly. BUT, after watching hundreds of hours of porn (which I enjoy, but understand that it's not for everyone so I'll just tell you what I saw) I learned a thing or two.

First, it helps if you put your arms on either side of his shoulders or stomach (or even pin his shoulders down). Then, one technique is to imagine yourself as then and begin a "thrusting" motion. You need to think of yourself as sliding the walls of your vagina up and down the shaft of his penis. The important part of this to avoid being bouncy and wearing yourself out is to only move your hips. There does not necessarily need to be any movement in the top part of your body. Also, moving only your hips leaves you free to bend over and kiss and lick him on the neck, ears, and lips. If your not into kissing and licking, you really should bend your mouth to his ear and let him hear you moan. From what I can tell, guys love this.

Here's a second thing you can try while on top: From either the position with your hands resting on the bed or on him OR sitting straight up (maybe fondling your breasts or massaging your the sensitive area above your clit), take him all the way inside of you and just move your hips back and forth. This allows for friction along his shaft with the motion of your body and also the satifaction of being so deep inside of you. This technique also does not require the movement of the upper part of your body and can be used as a "break" between more vigorous movements. A bonus from this technique is that as your hips move back and forth you get more stimulation on your g-spot and you are totally in control of how much (or how little) pressure you put on it.

These are my boyfriend's favorite moves and surprisingly, they're pretty simple. Honestly I must say that once I mastered these two moves, I was able to please my man better than ever before!

Oh, yeah! Added bonus, both of these moves are very do-able from either the reverse or forward cowgirl position.

[QUOTE=Quote (LadiesIsPimps2 @ Aug. 31 2004,19:49)]Hey, What am I doing wrong?[/QUOTE]
There is no right way or wrong way to have sex just different ways. If you try something different each time he'll feel like a harem of girls are enjoying his body. Do what you like & do what he likes. Let him watch you play with yourself. Don't expect everything to create fireworks. Enjoy whatever experiences you have.

I love being on top one of the only ways I can have an orgasm, and it took a little while to learn how to do it properly also, everything can be perfected with practice and like Orbital said you'll will never get complaints from practicing, if anything your partner will appreciate that your will to improve on it to please them.

Every sexual position has it's own benefits and limitations. LadiesIs, you say you've never been "good" at being on top, well, i've never really gotten alot of genital pleasure out of being on the bottom. That said, every partner of mine has loved sitting on my cock since they like the ability to set the pace and depth of penetration.

So, i've come to keep that position as a key part of my love making for a few reasons:
1) Since i know i won't cum wiht my partner on top, i can make sex last alot longer if my partner enjoys that position.
2) I get a great visual - being able to see the pleasure on their face and of course the ability to play with nipples and deep kissing.
3) If my partner leans forward, i can thrust my hips very quickly and really drive my partner wild.
4) Once that position is over, it's very simple to either a) sit up and roll on top, or roll to the side ...go for a while there, then roll 1/4 more onto the missionary position and go from there.

So, don't get hung up on being "good" or "bad" at any position. Watch your partner and communicate - verbally or non-verbally! It's all good!

you don't have to post it several times. we will get to your question eventually. we all aren't active on here at the same time.
i would check out this link.
its one i responded to awhile back. apparently i did a good job lol

Definite turnon with my last g/f. Especially when she'd just close her eyes, run her hands up through her hair and ride. Drove me wild

As another poster put-it - you'll never get any complaints whilst you're practicing!

Buttercups explanation is a good one and very descriptive.  

For me, I didn't like to be on top for a long time because I never felt I really had the hang of it. Then I decided to learn how to make it good. It takes practice like everything else. I approached it as a learning experience and would try different angles and movements. And my guy certainly didn't mind letting me practice all I wanted.