the first time we did it obviously it hurt(me), but watever we still did it, the thing is that neither of us felt pleasure and the only thing i was feeling was pain!!!...after that like a week later we tried it again, this time it hurt less but still it hurt, but this time one of us felt pleasure...he did. so we kept penetrating until he came. The next day we tried it again...and for some reason it still hurt like a lot (like the previous days) and he said that it felt awesome, better than before and i've to pretend that i like it too just to make him feel pleasure since thats something that i like to do.
The thing is that we kept doing it and it has been always the same thing, me = pain, he = pleasure.
my questios are...
when is the pain going to go away?, and why can't i fell pleasure?:(
plz help!
1. All women should have a complete gyn exam before becoming sexually active.
2. The first step toward pleasure will be eliminating the pain.
3. What else can be said at this point?
[QUOTE=Venezolanita]i've to pretend that i like it too just to make him feel pleasure since thats something that i like to do.[/QUOTE]Please don't lie to your boyfriend, as I don't think that will help anything.
He'll get the idea that it feels good to you, and then may go at it with more intensity in the future. Would that feel good at this point?
I would suggest taking it slow, until it stops hurting.
Currently, I'm having a similar problem with my girlfriend. If she had not told me that she was feeling pain, then I wouldn't be going through all the trouble to find out how to fix the problem! I think it's extremely important in a relationship for both partner to be honest with each other in these situations.