we cant say what sex is going to be like for you.
it could hurt / it might not
you could love it / you could hate it

we dont know our relationship more than you do, personally form the posts on here i have read it has come to mind that most people that have sex for there first time have it not live up to their expectations, remember sex is usually just pleasurable for a guy the first time.

well in my opinion

Well, first experiences usually don't live up to expectations, but doesn't necessarily mean that they are bad.

"My boyfriend and I" - yes well, anyway no one can answer your question because we aren't you and we don't know him. So all we can say is take precautions and relax.

yep easy enough.
does spelling really matter?
im not trying to be rude but if they get their question across does it matter how its spelt,

its to a degree i understand but you could clearly see she meant both her boyfriend and herself.
just wondering.

Yes, emily11, there is a difference - putting yourself first is rude. And spelling makes a huge difference: example Connor' snot or Connor's not. When one wants to get the message across it is better to be clear and precise. There is the added benefit of not sounding like an 'uneducated or under-educated person'. Consider for a moment, we do not know her. All we know about her is based solely upon the questions(s) she asked and the language she used to ask them.

Plenty of answers here already! Try scoping out the site for a while first. Then if you need more help, come back!

You say your nervous about it that is a warning signal... take it slowly wait till you are comfortable with the idea and your boyfriend make sure you know he will have the upmost care for you and not want to go further thanm you want if you say stop not this time he must respect that. find out about protection