In truth, it's really not that bad - especially not if she's showered. Make sure, if you have those concerns, that she takes care to clean herself very well, in all areas, and then you should have no problem. It should be lots of fun, if you're into it, don't worry :)
i've experienced the 'needing to wee' feeling many a time, and have also questioned it - to which my fellow forum-ers (??) have said it means she's getting close to the big O. If she's just been to the loo before you started making out then she has to try and forget about needing to pee and keep going. i tried a week or two ago and indeed after a while the wee feeling went away and the pleasure did increase!! ;) its just a matter of convincing yourself that its not wee but pleasure!! :D
p.s. it took me quite a while to get past the 'need to wee stage' - obviously no one wants to make a mess - especially if you're not in your own bed!!
Yes, feeling like you need to pee means that you are getting close to G-spot orgasm. She may ejaculate if she reaches orgasm this way, and she may be embarrassed if she doesn't know that it is ejaculate fluid rather than pee. Ejaculate fluid does not have a smell and it is NOT urine. If she "squirts" assure her that this is sexy to you, not gross, and if she doesn't know what it is, you might want to clue her in.
I'm less sure about the anal question as I have never tried this, but if she goes to the bathroom before, showers, and sticks a soapy finger up there to get properly clean, everything should be OK. I wouldn't really recommend anal play unless she has cleaned up beforehand, as there are some pretty nasty bacteria that you don't want to get infected with. Another thing to remember is that if you stick a finger up her bum, you should NOT go back to fingering her vaginally, as she could get a pretty serious infection, even if she's cleaned. Latex gloves are often recommended for this reason.
In truth, it's really not that bad - especially not if she's showered. Make sure, if you have those concerns, that she takes care to clean herself very well, in all areas, and then you should have no problem. It should be lots of fun, if you're into it, don't worry :)
i've experienced the 'needing to wee' feeling many a time, and have also questioned it - to which my fellow forum-ers (??) have said it means she's getting close to the big O. If she's just been to the loo before you started making out then she has to try and forget about needing to pee and keep going. i tried a week or two ago and indeed after a while the wee feeling went away and the pleasure did increase!! ;) its just a matter of convincing yourself that its not wee but pleasure!! :D
p.s. it took me quite a while to get past the 'need to wee stage' - obviously no one wants to make a mess - especially if you're not in your own bed!!
Yes, feeling like you need to pee means that you are getting close to G-spot orgasm. She may ejaculate if she reaches orgasm this way, and she may be embarrassed if she doesn't know that it is ejaculate fluid rather than pee. Ejaculate fluid does not have a smell and it is NOT urine. If she "squirts" assure her that this is sexy to you, not gross, and if she doesn't know what it is, you might want to clue her in.
I'm less sure about the anal question as I have never tried this, but if she goes to the bathroom before, showers, and sticks a soapy finger up there to get properly clean, everything should be OK. I wouldn't really recommend anal play unless she has cleaned up beforehand, as there are some pretty nasty bacteria that you don't want to get infected with. Another thing to remember is that if you stick a finger up her bum, you should NOT go back to fingering her vaginally, as she could get a pretty serious infection, even if she's cleaned. Latex gloves are often recommended for this reason.
Use a well lubed condom for anal sex - makes the whole thing nicer.