everytime i try to masturbate i get to a certain point and it makes me want to vomit.....is this weird.
ive tried to go passed this point till i finish but it ends up with me hunched over the toliet..
the only way i can seem to do it is with someone else participating (ie someone playing with boobs)..
i dont know wether this is a phisical or mental thing..
and sometimes it ends with me in tears at the shear fact that i cant seem be able to do it...
is this weird?
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Do you get any pleasure at all out of it? Like a good old orgasm?
I started to see a therapist because I was too prudish to touch myself, and after 8 sessions, and lots of instruction on where and what to touch, I have developed a habit of making myself cum every morning in bed!! The doctor says that 4 orgasms a day is a good idea for now,even if it means wearing my clitty buzzer to work! My boyfriend and I are having better sex now thanks to this! I love cumming!
Denise
AActually a really good option is to play it slowly. Your mind is rebelling from hormones as the previous post suggested but also probably from the newness of what your doing. A lot of girls our age have problems masterbating because they don't feel liek they are empowered enough to do it, or do it right.
My suggestion is take it slow. Go a little bit at a time, make up rules for yourself to normalize what yoru doing. For example: IF I put my finger here for 5 seconds I'll see if I can handle it. Try that until you can do it. Then say 10, 20, 30. Then maybe move it a little. Whenever you start to panic go back to somehting you decided was okay. This isn't as uncommon as you think, and in therapy this is one of the things they suggest. Somewhere along the lines you've associated somehting negative with this act, and now you can change it. Whatever happens, give yourself kudos for trying it, and make its as pleasurable an experience as possible.
I knew a girl who would listen to her fave music and light candles, she'd take a bath and give'r a go. if it worked fine, if it didn't-- at least she got some time to herself!
It may take some time, but you can do it. If it helps to have the boy involved, then let him watch and give you encouragement, maybe let his hand rest on top of yours to guide you the way he does it-- BUT DON'T LET HIM TAKE OVER.
This is important for you to do this, not him. Good luck, we're pulling for you!
I think you had the right idea when you tried crossing the line by the toilet... but the toilet kind of takes away from the moment... Perhaps laying on your bed with a bucket beside you in case you need it....
My guess is that the urge to vomit is coming from being uncomfortable with the hormones rushing through your body. Try getting past the line about 5 times to get used to the "HIGH"... if the problems continue after that, you should talk to your doctor.
No idea... I guess a psychologist can help you find out whats causing it, but I'm not one of them...
ive never had a bad experience and no i wasnt told it was bad it just makes me sick.. i went to the doctor about itbout now he says its mental... any tips on what i can do???
ACctually, im the same way.. i can't bring my self, to put.. a finger, or anything else UP there... but.. clit stimulation, im fine, but i feel guilty for.. but the rest of it, its like.. "omg.." omg" and you jsut feel sick... I totally know how you feel.
but im fine if my bf does it but like to me thats "completely" different....
Jamie
I've never heard of anything like that
Have you mention it to your doctor? If not you might want to, there could be some physical cause.
It might be psychological also. Have you ever had a bad experience masturbating? Like say being walked in on by parents or something and them being angry or whatever. Or perhaps if you grew up always hearing that it was bad and dirty to masturbate, you're feeling guilty about it?