so me and my girlfriend want to explore some different things we can try.
for some reason, I find girls masturbating to be extremely hot.
I want to watch her do it to herself, I just don't really know how to ask. I've mentioned it before, but never really said anything seriously or asked straight out.
I want to know if anyone has any suggestions for anything we could try to that would be fun for both of us. thanks.
One way would be to ask if she does it and you want to know how to please her better so you would like to watch her masturbate.
exploring each other bodies with just touching and massaging is fun
Why not say simply- I would like to see how you make yourself cum. Let's masturbate together. In my experience women are into it. They are even willing to race to see if they can reach orgasm first.
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Talk to her on what she thinks of a vibrator for using on herself when shes away from you, if she says yes then start using it when your there for the first time and then she can take it back to her place after that. Have you read over the other posts on here from other members to see what they have said and maybe some ideas on there will help.
Talk to her about sex toys and then simply say that you would like to see how she makes herself cum. Let's masturbate together.
Oooh...women love to touch there self in front of me. Take her hand and help her at first while your licking her clit. She will go off! Also use toys, we love them.
One way I used with my wife since she is hesitant to just masturbate for me, is to give her oral sex. After she is nice and hot, I just move her hand down on her and let her start rubbing her clit. I can back off a little and she will take over and rub her labia and insert a few fingers. I enjoy watching her stroke herself. She will then want me back down on her to lick her hot pussy. But the show for awhile is great. It is also nice to go back down on a nice wet pussy.
Do foreplay with here before sex, when she will get ready than it will easy to ask her for masturbate herself.
During fore play after she is pretty aroused, ease her palm into the back of your hand lightly gripping her thumb with yours. Continue carressing her then ease off slightly when she is very aroused. Look for the lest little pressure directing you back to the task at hand. When she does direct your hand give a sigh or a couple of heavy breaths to let her know you enjoyed it. Gradually work up to the point she is masterbating with your hand. It may not be the same night, go slow and don't talk about it. Also take this opportunity to note exactly where she likes things.
Later progress her hand down so her fingers get into the action also. Then progress to you helping her masterbating her with her fingers. Heavy rapid breathing lets her know you are really excited about it. Then gradually let her take over. If she withdraws, GENTLY guide her hand back while rubbing the top of her hand gently while breathing heavily. She will get comfortable with it soon. My wife will not just start doing it even now, but I just guide her hand gently and she takes over.
Do not expect her to look like a porn star with a horse dildo. It will probably be mostly clit massaging and a small sigh when she orgasms. Only after she is really comfortable with this would you introduce a vibrator.
Be ready to masterbate for her also. Seems 90% + of women find it to be a real turn on.
Hope this makes sense. It worked well for us.
hey..great to know u think its hot bcaz i think it is too..but there's nothing a girl like more than good sex..not rough and all sexual but "slow soft and sensual",,...might make her cum harder and faster..
me n my bf like it when we get in the shower together n i set the thing on to jet or mist n i put it in my pussy it feels good n he likes it