my boyfriend and i live about a 100 miles away from each other...or at least 40 minutes. we only see each other on the weekends but we talk every day for a good amount of hours...and in those hours we usually have phone sex included with both of us masturbating.
now he's a guy so he doesnt always do it with me on the phone with him...and like if he masturbates by himself early in the day and then masturbates with me on the phone and we see each other the next day, he, well, he's not exactly all that hard and it takes him longer to cum.
is this normal in a guy? (he's 17 btw) and is there a way i can try to make him harder on the day i see?
If he masterbates heavily on one day, he very well could have trouble getting or maintaining an erection on the next day. Also, if he does get it erect he may have trouble finishing or may finish with no (or very little) ejaculation.
As far as what can be done about it. Ask him to try to hold off from masterbating for at least one full day before you will see him. If that helps, holding off for longer periods may help even more.
I NEVER had any problems cumming the NEXT day.. during the sleep, it usually refills it all.. So, I find that weird.
100 miles in 40 minutes. That is 250 miles per hour. I guess you live by a bullet train.
No, there is nothing you can do. I would not be certain that it is the masturbating that has him limp. Talk to him.
What in the world do you talk about for hours each day?
bullet train? lol i dont know what that is but our parents usually drive us...hint the term usually.
and we talk about...well...everything. from how our day went and basically the normal conversation you'd have over dinner.