[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]No, I don’t think it is wired at all. Young teenagers with tons of hormones raging, come on, experimentation is perfectly normal. I did not have any cousins that lived near me but around the age of 13 I would masturbate with some of my male friends. She should not worry about it; I don’t think it really counts as incest at that age especially because it sounds like there was no touching. Also if she cares it dose not make her gay either, just a teen. [/SIZE][/FONT]

Yup, what he said.

Boys often engage in pissing contests as well as masturbation contests to see who among/between them can squirt the most the furtherest, the most often, the soonest. Bringing themselves or each other to a climax are both part of the sexploration. I've also heard of boys having ball crushing contests in which they squeeze each others testicles to find out who can withstand the most pain the longest all for bragging rights.

Boys and girls often explore each other and may or may not engage in touching or mutual masturbation. It's all part of having a healthy natural curiosity and is a phase.

Doc, I know a couple of, now men, who as teenagers fiddled about with each. One says he knew about 10 that he was gay and the other, well I have no clue what he thinks I haven't talked to him in forever. The one I have had a gf in high school and college, got married then divorced a year and a half later. He has found his partner for life, it's already been 20 years. His words were but I knew what I liked when discussing his divorce and then finding his partner.
So somethimes this phase doesn't end.