Well first off masturbations aint bad.

And well, it might be because you'll be thinking you aint mastubated in a while, you might be more sexually aroused or something? Just a theory lol, mind you when i aint masturbated in a while, say like few days, when i do it's better, just me though :p

Then you may come too fast though...i cut my B/F off once, but I discovered tat for us, it made no difference. In fact, doing it once a day, or every couple days kept orgasms quite nice.

Well i find sex is better if i dont wank for a couple of days. You get a much harder erection and the orgasm is much more intense. You also feel more sexually 'charged' and so i can usually hav sex several times in a night if its been say 4-5 days without masturbating.
Only drawback is that you will come quicker but this can be avoided by changing positions just before you come giving you time to drive it back down! After keeping yourself from coming a few times, when you finally let it go the feeling is just incredible!

Just my epxeriences

> recently my girlfriend asked me to stop masterbating i was like pffftt no way

The other drawback is that you may become anxious and tense and irritable if you do not release all those pent up stresses. (More to the point: just how long can you abstain before you give in??) The recommendations, above, are all valid, however, I would want to know the reason behind your girlfriend's request that you stop masturbating. The reason I am asking is because many young girls do not understand that there are two reasons guys crave orgasms. The first is to release pent up daily stress; the second is for pure pleasure and if in a relationship, to express the love you have for each other. Many girls believe that if their boyfriend masturbates while also enjoying a happy sexual relationship with them that it somehow minimizes or negatively impacts the importance of their sexual relationship. She may also take it personally in that she cannot satisfy him. Nothing could be further from the truth. If your girlfriend happens to hold to this rationale you must educate her in the ways of male physiology--that being that we can enjoy making love with our partner, yet at the same time and over a period of a day or more, we also accumulate stresses and tensions that must be relieved (alone) through masturbation--or together while also making love. One event has absolutely nothing to do with the other and this is what she must understand and accept. So, if the two of you make love often enough, and depending upon your accumulated buildup of stress, you might not find a need to masturbate, or at least not to do it as frequently. On the other hand, if the two of you do not make love very often, then it is extremely unrealistic of her to expect and to insist that you stop masturbating. To do so if you comply is for her to become her own worst enemy and all for misguided beliefs.

No, I don't think so. Just an unfortunate consequence of being alone. On the other hand, I have read that if a person becomes habituated to it, it can cause some difficulties in sexual gratification with a partner.

anyone who tells you not to masturbate is making a severe mistake, its healthy and normal. if you dont often enough, you risk painful "Blue balls" painful ejaculation and besides theres nothing wrong with masturbating as needed, its fun and healthy!!! set her straight, this isnt right, she has a mental hang up about this apparently, search online for some articles on this and have her read them because it is totally uncool and innapropriate for her to ask this of you, she might as well ask you to not crap unless shes there to see it. you'll have a bigger poo, but is it worth the pain in between????

this is a good article to have her read
http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/experts/sex/qas/0,,284458_628791,0...

Thank you for the link. It confirms what I stated.

I disagree with your statement that abstinence causes Blue Balls and painful ejaculation. To the best of my knowledge this is not true. Blue Balls is the result of congestion resulting from becoming aroused and then not allowing the blood flow to return to normal by having an orgasm as would be the case when a couple fool around but stop short of the guy having a climax. After a few minutes his testicles will ache a lot. The cure is to either continue and climax, go home after the date and masturbate and/or take a cold (cool) shower (which is the origin of the term "go take a cold shower" with regard to having a guy check his sexual advances.)

I think not masturbating is good for like a few days before a "big night" that you and your partner are going to have, it makes you harder longer and last longer after your first go.

I believe that there are some, very very few guys that actually will wait for sex and not masturbate

ok me as a female i masterbate all the time and that is the only way u gona know what u like girls so comeone and explore it fun honestly

I'm glad it's fun for you, obseesed ... but, for many, like me, who've been sexually abused as a child, it is NOT fun - I feel it is most definitely a key to unlocking one of the many doors in my healing journey towards THRIVING instead of merely surviving ... yet, it is still a HUGE TRIGGER for intense feelings of shame - did I want to be abused, is it my fault? Even though I know logically that I had absolutely NO CONTROL over that as a child, my body doesn't - when I start to feel good, to enjoy myself I have to fight every second to hang on to the good feelings & not disociate (leave my body) & go completely numb.... Masturbation for me is a little by little process that has been underway for almost a year & still I don't get wet & have not had an orgasm - I usually feel nothing at all by myself, only when my current partner touches me *SIGH* The only "fun" I've had with masturbation was 2 nights ago when we were sleeping together & I woke up from a dream - I was masturbating ... at 1st I was embarrassed because I was starting to try to get his attention while doing so & I ended up turning over feeling ashamed ... in the morning, I asked him if it was a dream & he said it definitely wasn't, that he enjoyed it - for the 1st time in my life I felt happy that I'd masturbated! It's hard not to feel pity & anger for myself about this & I feel like crying just typing it here, but at the same time I'm proud that I finally made some milestone, some progress & I'm CHOOSING to hang on to THAT in hopes that masturbation will become a fun, enjoyable activity for me :o

[quote]hey everyone recently my girlfriend asked me to stop masterbating i was like pffftt no way but i was thinking maby if i do it will make sex better because my penis will have been untouched for a week or so am i correct or not?[/quote]
Actually, even though I've been masturbating for many years now, I can understand why a person would not want their partner to masturbate. It can seem like masturbation is an act that dissociates the human sexual response from its role as a connection between people, and makes it into something not emotionally involved and purely carnal.

Certainly there are people for whom masturbation contributes to an unhealthy attitude toward sex overall, but this is not the case for everyone. Masturbation can enrich a person's sexual contact with their partner--for example, I think it is the opinion of most people on this board (myself included) that most women could use more masturbation in their lives, in order to learn about their own sexual responses.

Furthermore I think most people with a goodly amount of experience with both masturbation and partner-sex would hate the idea of never being able to have any sex other than masturbation for the rest of their lives. This, to me, is the important feature that masturbation does not share with cheating on your partner: masturbation can never be a satisfactory substitute for partner-sex, whereas sex with Person B can theoretically supplant sex with Person A.

If my boyfriend told me he wanted me to stop masturbating, I would explain to him why I think my masturbation makes me MORE, not less, willing and able to see sex as a special act of bonding between the two of us, rather than as a purely bodily activity.

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Masterbating is good because people are getting to know there bodies.!:)
I think you have to masterbate because you need certain pleasure in ur life!!
Thats my thinking on masterbating:rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Over 70% or more people masterbate....
It doesnt do any damage to you.:)

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http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_men/19248-got_doubts_can_a...

> Over 70% or more people masterbate....

and the rest are lying about it.