i was told not long ago that a good way to try to solve any orgasm troubles is to masterbate yourself first to make yourself orgasm and then tell your partner how you like it and what gets you off, the thing is i've been trying to masterbate and get myself to orgasm but it's not working finguring myself just gets boring after a while and starts to make my arm ache and i'm to young to buy any sex toys, how do i make masterbating more interesting for me so i can get an orgasm and finaly sort out my sex life.
Sat, 06/09/2007 - 12:01
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masterbateing
Just fingering doesn't work for most...they need some sort of clitoral stimulation.
One "technique" I use is like sit up on your knees and spread your legs as far as possible.
Reach down and insert 2 fingers (bird and ring finger for me) and then like press the heel of your hand up against your clit.
Sit down on your hand so that the pressue is up against your clit...and then just kind of hump your hand, lol... weird yes I know... but it seems to work good
for you does it take that long to climax useing that technique?
Depends...
If you are really turned on...then not so long.
If you are trying too hard...then it won't happen so easy
ok, my guy and i like to experiment, he has one of those vibrating razers, well get one of those, and move it on your clit....it actually feels, good!
[QUOTE=krp_rlw;181855]ok, my guy and i like to experiment, he has one of those vibrating razers, well get one of those, and move it on your clit....it actually feels, good![/QUOTE]
Yeah but remember to remove the blade LOL :eek:
well yea....that wouldn't feel good(lol)
hmm yeah i can understand where you might get the pleasure out of that i may give it a try some time.
demonbuttercup i tryed your technique a few times last night and i still dont think i've had an orgasm i got really hot and sweaty and there were moments were i thought i was going to almost explode but i didnt, any other tips?