Are first and second orgasms different?

[e_room_matt]

I have always noted one thing in my wife and was curious if other women experience it too.

Her first orgasm is very intense and tends to come from the front of her body. She clenches her stomach muscles and holds her breath.

Her second orgasm tends to be more subdued and comes from the back of her body. She takes a deep breath and arches her spine. (actually says she likes these better, "they're more relaxing, like breathing pure oxygen").

Anybody know why this is, or what is happening physically?

Any way of trying to combine the two sensations?

When she has had multiples they are usually repeats of the same type, so I don't think that is the route.

Just trying to learn more about my wife's body and how I can better "assist" her.

[spaced]

The same thing happens with me, and I'm a guy. I'd wager that it's all in the mind and the wonderful chemicals in it than anything being done. A good hard cum does wonders to relax you for the next three or four

Ask her if it's this way when she gets herself off alone, that will shed some light as to if it might be something you're doing different. Most people tend to masturbate the same way when they do it, so I've heard.

[EvilEvilKitten]

NO NO NO!!! No tensing of muscles! No holding the breath!!
STOP FIGHTING THE ORGASM!!

That explains the difference and if she didn't fight the first one, then the first would be like the second: sweet.

Try to induce this state of mind: it is hot, the sun is bright, you're on a raft floating just offshore, the beach is there but you're out past the breakers, all is calm, there's a light breeze gently caressing your skin, you're so relaxed. The orgasms come and go through you like the swells of the ocean rolling beneath your raft. One then another, and another. Aaaah!

In such a state, there is no limit to the number of orgasms a woman can enjoy - Nirvana Sex.

The Program and Body Worship will help with this.