Help.!!

[Mrsdeepthroat]

We've been together for 4 years and I'm still afraid to touch or lick or suck on his balls. I also wanna be submissive its just so hard for me to.

[dlb]

Some men don't enjoy having their scrotums licked or sucked as is the case with me. Touching on the other hand is great if done properly. Ask him about it. I am sure he would be happy to educate you.
As for the submissive thing-you and he should discuss what submissive means to you as individuals and as a couple. It seems to mean something different for every person and every couple. You might consider his educating you on how to stimulate his scrotum a form of submissiveness.

[dancingdoc2]

"Cleanliness is next to godliness." Licking or sucking anywhere in the area is best done after a bath. That said, I agree with dlb.

[EvilEvilKitten]

If you are finding it hard to be submissive then maybe you don't really want to be submissive - so STOP.

Think this through. Why do you want or think you should be submissive?
If you cannot answer that truthfully, then you have to go with your innate nature and just say 'to hell with it' and stop trying to be something you aren't.

First be honest with yourself and then be honest with your partner.

[Mrsdeepthroat]

i AM BEING HONEST WITH MYSELF I WANT TO BE SUBMISSIVE ITS JUST HARD CAUSE I DONT SEE MY BOYFRIEND AS A DOMANITOR. I AM IN THE REALSONSHIP. NOT SEXUAL.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You are being silly. Stop it. If you don't see your bf as being doninant enough to induce or release the submissive in you then perhaps you should get a bf who would suit you better.

Did it never occur to you that he may not want to become what you think you want him to be?

Stop thinking the world revolves around you , only you, and only around what you want.

Stop yelling at me. If you cannot express yourself clearly, that is not my fault, it is yours.

[Mrsdeepthroat]

Im not yelling at you i made a simple comment. My caps was on and i didn't really notice. my freaking bad. He wants me to be submissive and I wanna be submissive. Maybe you shouldn't automatically make stuff up in your head. But whatever. And

[Rouge]

All the above aside;

If you're naturally dominant, be dominant. I myself am naturally submissive and find it VERY difficult to be dominant, even though my partner would occasionally prefer it. If you'd really like to switch over (temporarily, trying to change this permanently will mess with your personality), practise, practise, practise. It'll feel funny at first, but eventually you'll get used to it.

I can occasionally be dominant, but it takes a lot of building up to do, and I have to be very desperately horny. For you, even light bondage may help to get used to it; taking away your control and giving it over to your boyfriend.

[Mrsdeepthroat]

Thank you Rouge.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Considering
"I also wanna be submissive its just so hard for me to."
and
"He wants me to be submissive and I wanna be submissive."

I'd hardly say I was making anything up.