Rimming = awsome results

[gierrmo]

I haven't posted on here in a while, but just thought I'd share our experience from last night. My wife couldn't decide if she was in the mood for a big one or whether or not she wanted a quick one for me and just go to sleep. We had already taken a hot bath together, and I did have a couple of candles in the bedroom, but she was tired. We were kissing and visiting and I turned her over on her stomach and just kissed and massaged her back, and then spent a long time on the backs of her legs, knees, and eventually but and inner thighs. This has never really done anything for her in the past, but tonight she seemed to be getting into it as she slightly arched her back and spread her legs slightly. (you don't realize, my wife rarely even wants me to go down on her even though it has a favorable outcome nearly every time, she's real self concious) Anyway, I continue to spend time on ther thighs and but cheaks, and see that she is now exposing herself to me and is very wet. So I start to lick her cat and she loves it. I have never eaten her from behind before, but she is liking it. I worked my way up to her anus and licked around the rim and she was surely enjoying it. I started inserting my tounge into her anus and she was going nuts, really close to orgasm with that alone. I then massaged her clit while inserting my toungue rhythmically and she got off longer than she ever has with me or by herself. She loved it, and so did I, because afterward she rode me backwards cowgirl like you wouldn't believe.
Anyway, a new experience for both of us and it was totally awsome. So if there are any closed minded people out there, open up and try something new. I strongly recommend it. Sometimes it is a chore to get my wife to really open up, but on the occasions that she does, there's no stopping her.

[sania]

Its not question of open mindedness. I dont feel eny enjoyment in doing or receiving it. Neither my b/f. Taking cock in mouth is a fun for your partner. Same is when our pussy is licked pationatlely by guys. We enjoy it. But making your partner lick you ass hole. it is unimaginable. Not tried even with condom.

[gierrmo]

Originally Posted by sania

Its not question of open mindedness. I dont feel eny enjoyment in doing or receiving it. Neither my b/f. Taking cock in mouth is a fun for your partner. Same is when our pussy is licked pationatlely by guys. We enjoy it. But making your partner lick you ass hole. it is unimaginable. Not tried even with condom.

You kinda contradicted yourself in your own post. "it's not a question of open mindedness," and "it is unimaginable, not tried even with a condom"

Which is it?

Anyway, I was not in any way saying it was for everyone, just sharing my experience on a first for us. And in case you missed it no one was "making" anyone lick their ass hole.

Don't knock it till you try it, it might suprise you

[Brandye]

Good for you. Now try it without switching to clitoral stimulation and take her the whole way with your tongue there.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Cleanliness is the issue really.

Why is it a chore to get your wife to open up? If the sex is that great, one would have thought that you'd never get any sleep because a woman who likes orgasms tends to want more orgasms.

So what's going on?

[gierrmo]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Cleanliness is the issue really.

Why is it a chore to get your wife to open up? If the sex is that great, one would have thought that you'd never get any sleep because a woman who likes orgasms tends to want more orgasms.

So what's going on?

I think it's more of a time issue. If we take the time to get her motors running things work great. With two young children a lot of our time is taken. Sunday afternoons are usually our fun time. During the week after we get the kids to bed often times she's too tired to take the time for foreplay, well I guess too tired, she explains it like this: If we start foreplay a little and her clitoris it not "tingly" then she says she knows it's not going to have a big one for her, so we just go ahead with intercorse and she has a "little" one. She tightens up inside and says it feels good, but it's just not the big all over the body type. She seems to be content having a big one just once a week or sometimes just 2 to 3 a month. I don't understand it myself, If I could have what she has (she can have three or four orgasms right after a big one) I would want it constantly, well I guess I do anyway.

I guess that's just the way it is with her body, but it's hard to understand. Sometimes she wants her breasts to be touched and wants her clit to have feeling, but neither will work for her. Does this make sense to any of you ladies? Is it her body, or my technique or both? I don't think it's technique because when things work, they really work.

[Sweet152]

She doesn't like anal but I want to try it at least once stick my cock in there but if she does not want it I'm not going to force the issue ya know.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, time is a problem for most. Taking the required 22 minutes for foreplay may not be necessary if...she thinks about sex beforehand.

so..
she might try considering how it feels, then she can visualize in her mind being with you while she feels that, and thinking about this periodically during the day can make 'starting her up' much easier.

Perhaps a re-adjustment in your schedule at the house? Say dinner at 6 kids in bed by 7:30? Just a thought.

No, she isn't unusual. Sex even with the same partner varies over time and circumstance. Some days ya FEEL IT! and some days...not. How it goes!

[gierrmo]

Thanks EEK, and I especially like the schedule suggestion, many times we're not getting started in bed until well after 10:30.