reason doesn't make sense.

[EvilEvilKitten]

She is not withholding sex - ALL of the time - she's just 'rationing'.

This situation is a step forward from where they were.

Now, I'd recommend she cut loose and just fuck him until he collaspes every night until he gets it through his thick head that HE IS HERS and that SHE WANTS HIM.

[2little]

ok everyone.

i feel bad that my thread has caused such a stir.

my husband had NOT had sex with me for 4 months. his excuss was that there was not enough foreplay. its not that i didn't try things for those 4 months. i did the sexy clothes, i had him come in to the bathroom while i was standing in the shower with a tight white tank top i mean it wasn't that i wasn't trying. (plus many other tries)

we talked about it, this time i think he understands. (but again i thought he understood all the other times we talked about it)

but we have been trying different things the past week, a few months back i told him i wanted to be more adventrous. he didn't like that idea.

but after we talked again he wanted the same thing but his was a different definition. like we wanted the same things but we both described it different. apprently neither of us would be great book writters. ha ha

i have tried to watch porn with him, but he didn't and doesn't like that idea.

things we have been doing this past week puts puddles in my panties just thinking about it. (sorry for the image)
but i am now getting the sex that i enjoy and he says that its what he has been looking for.

our marriage is important to me, i would never leave him over the porn things, but man it hurts. there will always be ups and downs in a marriage you just have to work your way up the hill again.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Effective Communication is the key, 2little. If that means smacking him upside the head with a brick, then so be it. No need to be shy, he's your husband.

[2little]

yeah, i thought we were always open about things, apparently not. but things are getting better, not only am i getting sex more frequent i am also getting help around the house, which is nice.

[sania]

Some thing of this sort happens to all of us. This was a nice stream of discussion and perhaps you agree or not will help each of us in someway or other.
We should be calm and rethink and best is to comunicate bothways and try to help your partner. Your partner will definetly help you.