Hubby wants to see me with another woman

[angeleyeschrisi]

I am on the fence about this..Sometimes I think it would be great and then sometimes I'm not so sure. If we I do this..Ive got so many questions..will it ruin our marriage? What if he gets jealous and accuses me of cheating?
Anyone got any advice?

[osca]

it wont affect a bit... though i aint married but i have requested my gf to make love to people in front of me its like having sex with hr nad watching the act at the same time.... only take care that u do it with some 1 whom either of u dont know. and avoid guys from hotels and restraunts if u dont want the whole town to be at ur door to sleep wid u. good luck. send me a pic too when u do

[Brandye]

Dumb advice.

There are many threads and posts on this question. Look around a bit.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by angeleyeschrisi

I am on the fence about this..Sometimes I think it would be great and then sometimes I'm not so sure. If we I do this..Ive got so many questions..will it ruin our marriage? What if he gets jealous and accuses me of cheating?
Anyone got any advice?

3-somes have been cussed and discussed many times. Do a site search using the search engine.

In general these do not have longtime success, meaning marriages and relationships usually end up having problems as a result.

[angeleyeschrisi]

Decided to tell Hubby that he can imagine it and we can "talk" about it while we are having sex or foreplay but it wont go beyond that. I love what we have and dont want to jeopardize it for a night of fun.

[EvilEvilKitten]

If YOU want to get with another woman - then fine but if you don't - and you being unsure indicates that you're not ready for this - then DON'T.

There is no law that states you have to do everything your hubby wants (and vice versa).

My men can want this all they please - it simply is not going to happen because I feel getting with a woman about the same way they would feel about getting with another man.

It might be a nice idea to ask him that if you do this for him, will he get with another guy so you can watch?

Onto the rest of your questions now: it will only ruin your marriage if you two let it, it is NOT cheating if he has given you permission to do this and you two have set up guidelines and everyone abides by them, finally - BOTH of you have to hunt for this woman together.

It is called a 3-some and welcome to the Lifestyle aka Swinging.
Jeopardize? Well, SOME of us can handle it.