anal sex

[why]

me and my wife have been married for a while and we have had anal sex a few time and she also has had orgasms from it and a then she said that she did not like it and did not what to any more put i still do and i have asked her for it and turned down and not said anything and played with her anals and nothing was said until afterward and was wanting some feed back on this problem i am having

[nuttychick]

Wow that is a long sentence and very hard to understand...... So what is the problem ? your Wife said NO to anal sex.. So that means NO.......

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by why

me and my wife have been married for a while
and we have had anal sex a few time
and she also has had orgasms from it
and .. then she said that she did not like it
and did not what [sic] to any more
put [sic] i still do
and i have asked her for it and turned down
and not said anything and played with her anals
and nothing was said until afterward
and was wanting some feed back on this problem i am having

You might ask her what she no longer likes about the activity. Making love is a partnership in which we explore and learn together. If there is something that is being done that she does not like then asking her for a critique can be useful.

If she does not like to do it then something has changed, only she knows so she is the person to ask for information.

If it hurts, then there are ways to prevent this. If you are fingering her before she is very highly aroused then you are doing it to early.

Man or woman, anal stimulation is very pleasurable when done after a person is very aroused and nearing an orgasm. If you are doing it before she is then this is very likely why she is unhappy.

Here is an article to read:
"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

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[EvilEvilKitten]

Very few women actually get anything from anal sex. our wife tried it and found that she didn't enjoy it. Having tried it, she now sees no reason to continue doing something she does not enjoy.

Why would you want her to continue doing something she does not enjoy?

What is it about anal sex that you find so enjoyable that you would want to override her objections to it?

Isn't there something you two can do together that you BOTH enjoy?

Do you think your desires are more important than hers?

[Brandye]

We each have limits on what we are willing to do. You have found one of your wife's limits. Please do a search on anal sex and you will find several of my posts on problems associated with anal sex.

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by why

me and my wife have been married for a while and we have had anal sex a few time and she also has had orgasms from it and a then she said that she did not like it and did not what to any more put i still do and i have asked her for it and turned down and not said anything and played with her anals and nothing was said until afterward and was wanting some feed back on this problem i am having

I am wondering whether these 'orgasms' which you mention are really the case? Go very carefully I feel.

[LustyLisa]

I think you are seeing what you want to see. You say she's had orgasms with anal sex but you didn't say that "she said" she had an orgasm. As already stated by a previous poster, "MOST" woman don't get anything out of anal sex except pleasing their partners at risk of great peril to themselves. She gave it a try now leave her butt hole alone. Respect her boundaries.

[calv]

The wife plays with my bum and has cum playing with me, it really turns her on

[sania]

I will never let him do it. I just cant imagine how girls take that cock in mouth or vagina after it has come out from her own ass. In fact no girl will like except some compulsions or trying to please

[pinkFlames]

Originally Posted by sania

I will never let him do it. I just cant imagine how girls take that cock in mouth or vagina after it has come out from her own ass. In fact no girl will like except some compulsions or trying to please

This "girl" does like it and has the most intense orgasms from anal intercourse. Believe it or not, I'm not the only one either.