Sharing fantasy with long-term partner

[BDM]

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[EvilEvilKitten]

We often do that, BDM, and it is something to guard against hence "it takes all kinds" and similar expressions.

[dlb]

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BDM, if you have fantasies and you want to live them out, no is the time to do it. The fact that your girlfriend is asking means that she is interested in kinking it up a notch (or more) with you. Go for it! Your next partner might not be as open.

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Originally Posted by BDM

Well we were just talking. We just wanted to know what was in each others heads.

And did you find out what is in each other's heads? If you did, what are you going to do about it?

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Dirty talk is great. Role playing is great. 2 or 3 on one is great, but both the one receiving attention ( your GF) and the main partner (you) have to be sure ahead of time that you are willing to deal with it. Everyone has to understand that it is just a group sex thing, nothing more. It has to be a couple who is very secure individually and as a couple. Then who do you bring in? Either extremely cool friends or you find your local swing community where there will be well mannered, well educated, respectful and experienced people who can help you out.

This sort of kink is not for everyone, but it sounds like you two might like it.

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[EvilEvilKitten]

When the desire overcomes the fear, then she will be ready.

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