Too nice

[lnt1103]

Maybe he's just an incredibly giving guy who truly enjoys making you happy, maybe he's got an ulterior motive, maybe he's insecure and thinks he needs to work this hard. Talking it all out with him is the only way to know for sure.

It could be a thing where he just isn't assertive about his own opinions or desires, which could be rooted in him always putting himself after everybody else. One thing you could try is, when there's a minor choice to be made between two options, force HIM to make the decision, WITHOUT your input. T did this with me for a while, and periodically still does. Decisions that were small and didn't absolutely require his input were MINE and mine alone--dinner destination, unimportant stuff like that. He actually flat out told me once that it was partly an exercise in asserting my own wants and opinions. If he truly gave a rat's rosy red one, he'd say so, but otherwise I had to make the decision without his opinion, because it helped me practice putting myself first.

It's been said so incredibly often, COMMUNICATION. Talk to him about it.