very depressed...not sure what to do

[oaktree]

Long distance relationship is tough. My brother and his fiancée been dating and engage for 5 1/2 years when they where thousands of miles apart. She was in medical school in Michigan, St. George, Flordia, and New York while he was in Oklahoma.

[EvilEvilKitten]

YHelo - so I guess 3-somes are out, right?

[22much]

Originally Posted by stlou87

I appreciate all the help, thanks everyone.

I'm just having trouble knowing what to do with myself. It's been almost 3 weeks since I last saw her, and yeah its gotten better slowly but there are still times (mostly at night or when I'm alone) that I get super depressed and get very, very close to calling her. I've managed to resist this but it still sucks.

It just seems like she can get any guys she wants but I'm left in the dust, with no prospects to speak of.

What I'm really dreading is returning to school in late August, where I'll be smack dab in the environment I met her in, starting dating her in, and spent the most time with her in. This is what I'm really concerned about, and I'm not really sure how to handle it.

I know I'm still young but are there really other "fish in the sea?" To me shes the only one who can really make me happy.

St Lou87,

My Friend I am 54 years old I've been in love many times. I would go back with most of these ladies I have loved. I also remember being mad at them after we broke up. They hurt me, this hurts, it does. Find some blues music you like. Be mad at her (you'll get over that later) Make friends with some women, just be friends. Learn from them what they like, in other words listen. You will then be able to have any woman you want. And can find one that will make you happy. By the way along the way get laid, frankly that will help you get over her too. There are women out there, good ones looking for a good man. There is nothing wrong with you, you need to treat women with respect, listen more than you talk. And you will find a woman who you can be happy with, and she with you.