Oral veto (long)

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, dlb, we do enjoy meeting 'newbies' whether they join or not. The group that I belong to has weekly 'hang out' nights where we relax from the week's toil and discuss this and that, do a bit of flirting - nothing major, and make future arrangements. Periodically a hostess or two will come along to see who is available for future house parties. All of this socializing is necessary - think of the trouble you had getting one person to go out with you - then try to get 4 people, or more, to be 'compatible' !!

And you thought you had dating problems!!

[dlb]

Well I am glad to know that EvilEvilKitten. Even though Mr.&Mrs. Bouledoux might not be ready ( possible never will be) to take the plunge into the lifestyle being in the atmosphere of a swinger hang-or similar situation- might be good for them both.
Haha, no dating problems here. But I was told recently that I deserve and should have three additional subs. Being told by your lifelong partner that you deserve and should find three other women to bring into your circle might seem pretty cool to some, but seeing as how I am so stuck up and picky...it might never happen

[EvilEvilKitten]

I do not know about you dlb - but I find running 4 men delightfully easy.
Of course they are all mature, secure, and sensible men.
I am sure if I had to deal with some other types of men, I would find running them more difficult.
Fortunately, the unsuitable men fear me and so do not annoy me by asking.

[22much]

Wow I though I had it bad. I feel for you.