hes a one minute two minute man

[mimi[[f]]babii]

i have been with my fiance for a while and for the first year we went at it like crazy but now it seems like everytime we have sex he finishes so quick im stuff finishing with myself.if you no what i mean he still wants it around the clock its just not as fun for me anymore i feel like why should i get u there if im stuck at the starting line what should i doo...

[LickMyGamete]

First, be blunt and tell him you're not satisfied. Then what we generally do is switch positions when I feel like I'm about to finish early. Doing it one way can feel completely different than some other positions, and then he can always go down on you to give himself a rest. And then - have sex regularly! He should get more desensitized to it when done often..

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to many informative insightful and some how-to articles.

Making love and having sex is not what we do to each other; rather, it is what we do with an for each other in partnership. He needs to learn this and to understand that men and women view romance differently. He should also read the articles in the Index. The two of you can do this separately or together, and then discuss what you have learned.

First, etiquette dictates that a guy should help you have an orgasm first and last. In between the two of you can enjoy more after your respective recovery times. For you this may only be moments; for him--ten to thirty minutes.

Second, few sexual positions place your pieces-parts in close contact with his sufficient to generate the required friction required to build your arousal to the brink and then beyond. What a knowledgeable skilled, caring lover will do is to reach around and finger his partner's clitoris while stroking away.

Third, nobody is a mind reader, so some feedback is required in order to know how our partner is responding to our kisses and caresses. A woman's orgasm is much more internalized that a man's so a guy is left wondering did she or didn't she. He may think he is doing everything right yet by not communicating with him, he is left to ask the age old question: "did you cum, yet???" Help the dude out by offering him a "sigh", a "wow" or "WOW", an enthusiastic hug and a kiss, etc. If you do not want to say anything then work out some body English that lets him know that you climaxed--or not.

If not, it is important for both of you to understand that we do not give orgasms away. Each person is responsible for his/her own. All any of us can do is to help our partner achieve them. Teach him how you do it by taking his hand and moving it like you do your own hand over a few sessions until he learns to mimic your unique and specific movements. The same holds true for him with you.

If you are not reaching a climax, then this has a much to do with you as with him. Work together.

I hope this is of help. Got questions? If so, please do not hesitate to ask, although, read the many articles, first.

Explore and learn together. Please begin reading those articles today. Information is empowering!

[Brandye]

If he is considerate, he will finish you - or at least help. If he is very considerate, he will practice ladies first.

A man's ejaculation should not the end of the woman's evening.

[Dbondjuk]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Second, few sexual positions place your pieces-parts in close contact with his sufficient to generate the required friction required to build your arousal to the brink and then beyond. What a knowledgeable skilled, caring lover will do is to reach around and finger his partner's clitoris while stroking away.

I have done this with my EX and I'll say this, if you do it right and manage to hit that "spot" at the same time, you will give her an orgasm like never before. Over all, reaching around and if you are good with your hands, will blow a females mind. I've learned so much about sex and everything by coming here for a few months, then experimenting on my own as well with a partner.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay - women have four hotspots but when she's REALLY fired up there isn't any place on her body that isn't orgasmic. So, insufficient foreplay is being practiced here. He's NOT firing you up sufficiently before getting to vaginal penetration.

Stop letting him off the hook. Tell him if you're still hungry. Show him how to assist you to orgasm. Thrusting is not necessary for women's orgasms - small movements correctly done in the right place is just what is needed.

Please find, read, and do The Program - a sticky post in this forum. Learn to do body worship. Once you get into this sort of sex - positions become irrelevant and every sexual interlude becomes a conflagration of unbridled passion. You can make your one minute/2 minute man into a 4 hour/5 hour man - just by proper 'management' and continued practice.

Stop holding back and get demanding - 3 times per week at least - for a total of 12 hours of sex per week.