Time has gone by.

[Dbondjuk]

Yes, yes it has. It has been about a month an a half since I broke up with my ex GF, yet I still seem to get random spurts of depression so to speak. There are days where I am fine and I don't think about her, then there are consecutive days in a row where I feel like I miss her so much and HAVE TO TALK TO HER. I haven't yet, but ever since Friday of last week, I have been thinking about her constantly for some reason. I mean, after all the things she does and has did wrong to me, how it seems like she can't take care of herself or even prioritize her bills and money management, I still want her back. I mean, I have my days I guess where I'm fine, but most of the time I do wish I could be with here again; I loved being with her and according to the way I feel now, I still do.

I don't know what to do anymore, it's like i can't go a week or 2 with out talking to her. So far, this is the longest I've gone with out talking to her. She did comment me something on Facebook, and I never commented back and that was the last thing she said. Any suggestions? I suppose I need a new hobby or something... I feel like I want to message her again, but I know it more then likely won't do anything because she " just has to figure this out on her own and feels like she just HAS to go through with it".

I don't know what to do anymore. I wrote this here because its better then me writing her and I almost did that. Feeling like this gets so frustrating sometimes. :S

[dlb]

Oh this will take a while and you will feel like crap and one day, sooner or later, you will get over.

The best thing to do is get on with your life. Yeah, a hobby could be good. A fling, or three, could be good.

If you feel that this person does wrong things to you it is best to avoid her. You don't actually like being mistreated do you?

Get on with your life. Concentrate on what is positive in your life. Concentrate on school or work or whatever you do. What is over is over. The only thing positive about this person is that you want to be with her.
Be a man! Go be with someone else. It will make you feel so much better about yourself and the world.

[dancingdoc2]

Doing so will work, although it is not an instant cureall.

To do this, whenever the thought of her pops into your head, tell yourself: "Self, do not think about 'Y' {insert name) and then change your mind to some other thought. Do this over and over and over, as many times and as often as required. Focus hard on the new thought. Eventually she will appear less and less.

What you are experiencing is quite normal. As you date others and have future ex's, this will probably happen again.

[Dbondjuk]

Yeah, I guess I'm a fool for love. It's like, if she came back to me and said she wanted to get back and that she made a huge mistake, I would probably take her back if I wasn't over her. I think the reason why I think about her more is because I know I'm getting over her quicker then expected, yet I don't want to but I am. It's kind of confusing really, lol. I'm getting over her and I'm afraid of getting over her because i want to be with her sometime. I know that if i get over her, its done, at least for a while if not for good. But, if I don't get over her, then I'd take her back but there would be changes and i wouldn't take her back unless I knew things were going to be different and better.

My girlfriend before my EX cheated on me, we stayed together after she made the decision of choosing me. I didn't want to leave her either, I THOUGHT I wanted to be with her so I tried to work it out.. A week later, I felt that nothing would change and I just felt different and broke up. It was more of a mutual thing though, so no harm done really. I missed her occasionally, but I think we were both fine. Were good friends now oddly enough. The only thing I'm worried about with my recent ex is that I have to get my tax forums still. I've tried to contact her mom so she could drop them by, but her phone is broken. I don't wanna go through the pain of seeing this girl, especially if I get random spurts of "missing her a lot". I don't want to talk or see her unless we are getting together, for the most part.