
04-22-2009, 05:57 AM
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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Hmmmm - this is similar to many other threads. You may consider reading them.
Your choices, assuming the absence of any medical condition, are:
1. accept him as he is and STFU + masturbate
2. divorce
3. marriage/couples counseling
4. find yourself a lover - w or w/o permission
Or you can be evil, like me, and do The Program, see above, on him WITHOUT letting him orgasm - just get up and walk away. The next time, use him for your pleasure and then once again, don't let him oragsm - walk away. He orgasms only when you let him. Do not tell him in advance which it is to be. Frankly, you're husband is NOT paying attention to you.
Once you have tried discussion, the frank and open kind, you have to try stronger methods to get the message across. Here is a man with a wife many men would kill for - a woman who wants sex more than once a month.
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These ideas are good. I can also suggest a break. I know that when my boyfriend goes home for a week, we have sex for hours, and it's better than normal. Just a suggestion.
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